(Advanced copy) Daily Advice July 3, 2013 成為知己 Become a confidant

七月三日	July 3, 2013
成為知己 *** 如果想成為知己 不是那麼的簡單 不應該是合則來 更不是不合則去 而是要用心培養 能做到寬宏大量 願意為對方犧牲 才可以友誼萬歲	Become a confidant   ***       If you want to become a confidant, it isn’t as simple being together with your partner when there is an agreement, but depart from each other when there is a disagreement.  Both of you have to put in effort to be forgiving of each other.  Be willing to sacrifice a little graciously, when it is needed.  Only with such a behavior, will both of you be able to say, “Long live our friendship.”
路遙知馬力 *** 所謂路遙知馬力 又話日久見人心 不要用短暫眼光 來觀察判斷對方 給對方多些時間 表現個人的才幹 到那時才下判斷 才可是正確可信	Only time can tell  ***     Only time can tell the strength of your horse.  Again only time can tell whether an individual is a good person or not.   Don’t rush to judge someone when you only know the individual for a short period of time.  You need to give adequate time before you can draw a  conclusion.  Give the individual time to show his/her performance before you judge him/her.  Only then, will your judgment be correct and credible.