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Monday, August 31, 2020

September 1, 2020 self cultivation

Daily Advice September 1, 2020


善報先修身 ***


人生中待人處事

不應該斤斤計較

各有前因莫羡人

欲求善報先修身


Self-cultivation brings good rewards.  ***


Don’t be calculated when dealing with people or events.   Don’t compare with others as people have different background.  It is better to perform self-cultivation before one expects rewards. 


大家好.  ***


無須要互相爭鬥

最好能忍耐一下

長遠計值得一忍

你好我好大家好


Endurance is good for everybody.   ***


People don’t need to fight against each other.   It is better to be a little bit endurance now.  In the long run, such endurance will be good for everyone. 

Daily Advice August 31, 2020

 


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Daily Advice August  31, 2020


事實 ***


在面對上司之時

只可以講出事實

不要找任何藉口

掩飾事實的錯誤


Facts   ***


When facing the boss, tell the truth.  Don’t look for excuses to cover up

the facts. 


真實的事情.    ***


人有時没有脾气

是因為已經學會

能夠無條件接受

任何真實的事情


The true facts.   ***


People sometimes have no temper because they have learned to accept the truth whether they are good or bad unconditionally. 

Sunday, August 30, 2020

Voice of a grand daughter

 August 30, 2020 - voice of a Grand daughter 


Covid-19 short story

    Written in both English and Chinese 


Voice  of a Grand daughter 


The phone was ringing.  It must be one of those marketing calls.  This time, I would  not answer the phone.  Recently, there have been at least two such calls in the morning, two in the afternoon, and even two more before 9 pm.  It was annoying.


  A minute later, the phone rang again.  This time I picked up the phone, raised my voice and said loudly, "Hello".  The other party immediately dropped the call.


  After another minute, the phone rang again.  This time I picked up the phone and did not speak.  A girl's voice said, "Where are Grandma and Grandpa?"


  "Oh, my baby ...this is grandma...I love you..." I replied.


  "Grandma , I miss you." My 3-year-old granddaughter Lydia said.


  "I miss you too." Lydia replied.  " When are you coming?  "


  "As long as it is safe to travel, I will see you guys as soon as possible." My eyes were wet.


  "Grandma ,  I'm very safe at home. My brother is busy with his iPad. He doesn't fight with me or beat me anymore." Lydia answered happily.


  My face immediately turned into a smiling face, and I said, "That's great."


  "Grandma , you must come. I miss your toys, new clothes and... well..." There was a silence .


  "What else, Lydia?" I want to know her

  answer. Silence continued. 


 I asked again, "What else?"


  There was a pause for a few seconds.  Then she said: "Your hug and  kisses...”


  "Really?" I am glad to hear this answer.  "Good girl, I will send you some hugs and kisses and toys."


  "I want new clothes too, Grandma.  But brother has an iPad.  So he doesn’t need anything."


 I replied happily, "Ok... Ok..."


  "Really? I'm going to tell Mommy now. Mommy... Mommy..." She hung up the phone.


孫女兒的心聲


電話響了。 它一定是那些營銷電話之一。 我今次不再接電話。 最近,這類的來電,早上至少有兩個,下午兩個,甚至晚上9點之前也有兩個。 真煩死人。


 一分鐘後,電話又響了。 這次我拿起電話,抬起聲音大聲說,你好 對方立即打斷了電話。


 再過一分鐘,電話又響了。 這次我拿起電話不說話。 一個女孩子的聲音說:嫲嫲和爺爺在那兒?”


 “哦,親愛的……這是嫲嫲……我愛你……”我回答。


 “嫲嫲,我掛住你。” 我的3歲孫女兒莉迪亞說。


 “我也想念你。” 莉迪亞回答。  “ 你什麼時候來?  


 “只要旅行是安全的,我就會盡快見到你。” 我的眼睛濕了。


 “嫲嫲我在家很安全。 哥哥忙於他的iPad 他不再和我打架或者打我。” 莉迪亞自豪地回答。


 我的臉立刻變成笑臉,我說,那真好。


 “嫲嫲你必須來。 我很想念你每次帶來的玩具,新衣服和…………”寂靜無聲。


 “還有什麼,莉迪亞?” 我想知道她的

 答案。


我再追問,” 還有什麼? “


 停頓了幾秒鐘。 然後她說:你的擁抱和親吻……”


 “真的嗎?” 我很高興聽到這個答案。  乖孫,嫲嫲會寄給你,一些擁抱和親吻,還有玩具。


 “ 我還要新衣服,哥哥有iPad 什麼都不要。


我好開心地回答,... ...”


 “真的嗎我現在去告訴媽咪。 媽咪……媽咪...” 她掛了電話。

Daily August 28, 2020

 Daily Advice August 28, 2020


新的想法


轉角度去看事情

注意力集中問題

會找到新的想法

解決當下的問題


New idea.   ***


If people look  at things from a different angle and concentrate on problems not people, they will find new ideas to solve their current problems.  


適時充充電 ***


只要適時充充電

耐力足夠又持久

再專注要做的事

這樣辦事會輕鬆


 Charge in time.   ***


Charge your energy just in time. This will boost your endurance and persistence.   Such charges will make working less stress but more relaxing. 


Daily Advice August 27

 Daily Advice August 27, 2020


無須太苛求 ***


不必追求任何事

都做得十全十美

無須要太過苛求

已盡全力已足夠


No need to be too demanding


 Don't have to pursue everything to be 

 perfect.   Don’t be too demanding on yourself as long as you have already put in your best efforts. 


向準目標走.   ***


只要有一個目標

向準目標走下去

想盡辦法努力做

總會達到目的地


Towards the target.  ***


As long as one has a goal and works diligently towards achieving the goal. With such persistence, one will ultimately reach one’s goal. 

Daily Advice August 26, 2020

 Daily Advice August 26, 2020


無憂過晚年.   ***


鼎盛時期要儲蓄

做好退休的準備

才不至於會餓死

無憂無慮過晚年


Worry-free in old age. ***


Save in the heyday to prepare for retirement.  This way one will not starve to death but be carefree in retirement age. 


留後路 ***


凡事都要留後路

才可以不走絕路

將來敵人再碰面

大家可以點點頭


 Forgive a little.  ***


Always leave room to forgive a little so that the relationship will not be at a dead end.   Such behavior will allow people to nod without embarrassment when meet again in the future. 

Tuesday, August 25, 2020

Daily Advice August 26, 2020

 


Daily Advice August 26, 2020


無憂過晚年.   ***


鼎盛時期要儲蓄

做好退休的準備

才不至於會餓死

無憂無慮過晚年


Worry-free in old age. ***


Save in the heyday to prepare for retirement.  This way one will not starve to death but be carefree in retirement age. 


留後路 ***


凡事都要留後路

才可以不走絕路

將來敵人再碰面

大家可以點點頭


 Forgive a little.  ***


Always leave room to forgive a little so that the relationship will not be at a dead end.   Such behavior will allow people to nod without embarrassment when meet again in the future.

Monday, August 24, 2020

August 25, 2020

 Daily Advice August 25, 2020


開心無憂 ***


簡單地換個想法

會有不同的效果

時常保持著開朗

自然會開心無憂


Be Happy and worry-free.  ***


Simply change your way of thinking.  You will have different results.   Always keep a cheerful attitude and naturally you will be happy. 


 變成快樂 ***


就算覺得不快樂

也要假裝成快樂

逢人就要微微笑

漸漸會變成快樂


Become happy.   ***


When faced with unhappiness, if people  pretend to be happy, and smile when seeing everybody, gradually they will be happy. 

Daily Advice August 24, 2020

 Daily Advice August 24, 2020 


Good Advice Part 5 or Enlighten 

(一言驚醒梦中人

A 10 minutes self help book offering pieces of doable advice to help people live a happier and more productive life. ‬


‪Order online: 

Available at Amazon.book or 

www.dorrancebookstore.com‬


‪Daily Advice‬

‪Author: Philip Chan‬

‪Email: goodadvicechan@gmail.com‬

‪www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com‬ 


Daily Advice August 24, 2020


擁有的東西 ***


自己擁有的東西

一旦失去不復返

到時失去才後悔

為何不珍惜當下


Possessions.   ***


 Once your possessions are gone, they will never return.  By then, you may regret it.  Why don’t you cherish the present while you still possess them. 


快樂起來.   ***


最好忘記傷心事

改變自己的心情

再想快樂的往事

自然會快樂起來


Be happy again    ***


Better forget the sadness.  Change your mood.   Recall the happy memories of the past.  You will naturally be happy again. 

Sunday, August 23, 2020

Grandma loves dancing

 August 24, 2020  -  the new norm 

Grandmother loves dancing ***


        Covid New Life Short story written in English and Chinese


  I ran to the front door happily and rang the doorbell.  No one answered.  I pressed it again and again.  Even the door bell rang, no one came to open the door.  I started knocking vigorously on the door, but no one answered.


   My friends walked around the house to see through each window to see whether my grandmother was in the house.


  Soon the four of us regrouped at the front door of the house.  All of us shook our heads.


  I started to look very worried.  My grandmother is the only survival member of my family.  When I was a 5-year-old girl, she raised me.  My worries gradually turned into tears.  My college roommate hugged me tightly and cried with me.  The other two comforted me and advised me not to worry.


  At this moment, a lady wearing a big hat, sunglasses, a black mask, a floral top, a knee-long black skirt and a pair of black shoes came towards the house.  She raised her voice and said, "What's going on here?"


  I raised my head and screamed in surprise and excitement, "grandma ".  I ran towards her, hugged her tightly and started crying.


  She was very happy to see us and said: "Silly girl. Why are you crying?".


  I replied: "The four of us, come and beg you to let us live with you.  Can we. ?”


  "What happened?" She answered in a cheerful voice.


  "Our university is temporarily closed. We have enrolled online courses. Is it okay if we all stay here?"


  Grandma who once won a school dance award, was so excited that she started dancing with me. Then she switched to dance with my friends one by one.  


  My grandmother was such a good dancer.   She would not stop but kept dancing with us.   Some of my neighbors came out to clap their hands.


  *****



祖母喜歡跳舞


         用英文和中文寫的《 Covid New Life》短篇故事。


   我高興地跑到前門,然後大力按門鈴。 沒有人回答。 我一次又一次地按鈴,雖然門響了,仍然沒有人來開門。 我開始大力敲門,但沒有人回答。


    我的朋友走到房子外面,看看每個窗戶,是否可以看見我的祖母在房子裡。


   很快,我們四個人在房子的前門重組,每個人都搖了搖頭。


   我開始很擔心。 我的祖母是我家庭的唯一生存的成員。 當我還是一個5歲的女孩時,她可始撫養我。我的擔心逐漸變成了眼淚。 我的大學同居室友緊緊地擁抱著我,跟我一起哭了。 另外兩個同學盡力安慰我,並建議我不要擔心。


   這時,一位戴著大帽子,太陽鏡,黑色口罩,碎花上衣,及膝長的黑色裙子和一雙黑色鞋子的女士, 向著我的屋子行過來,慢慢行到我們的身邊。 她抬高聲音說:發生什麼事?


   我抬起頭,驚訝而激動地尖叫著嫲嫲。 “我朝著她跑過去,緊緊擁抱著她,開始哭泣。


   她很高興見到我們,說:傻丫頭。為什麼哭?


   我回答:我們四個人,求求你,讓我們與你同住,可以嗎?


   發生了什麼?” 她用歡快的聲音回答。


   我們的大學暫時關閉。我們已經註冊了網上課程。我們和你住在這裡, 可以嗎?


   一位曾獲得學校舞蹈獎的祖毋非常激動和興奮,她開始和我跳舞,然後和我的朋友們一個接一個地跳舞。 我的祖母是一位出色的舞道者,她不斷表現她的美妙舞道,一些鄰居看見也出來拍手。


   *****

Friday, August 21, 2020

Daily Advice August 21, 2020

 


Daily Advice August 21, 2020


輸贏得失 ***


輸贏得失不打緊

過程精彩最重要

享受過程的剌激

比結果更加興奮


Win or loss.   ***


It doesn't matter whether you win or lose.  The most important is to enjoy the wonderful process.   The excitement of enjoying the process is more exciting than the result. 


傷人的言語.   ***


小心不要让自己

怒火不停地上升

否則傷人的言語

會變得愈加厲害


Hurting words.   ***


Be careful not to let your anger keep rising, otherwise hurtful words may 

become more powerful and harmful. 

Daily Advice August 20, 2020

 


Daily Advice August 20, 2020


活得輕鬆.   ***


做人要戰勝自己

打敗自己的怯懦

打敗自己的固執

定可以活得輕鬆


A relaxing life    ***


If one can defeat oneself, one can have a relaxing life.   Defeat one’s own cowardice and stubbornness. 


樂觀看前望.   ***


無論疫情是怎樣

做好自己的本份

保持樂觀看前望

美好日子會再來


Look ahead with a positive  attitude  ***


 No matter how bad the epidemic is, 

 do your part to keep safe and look forward with a positive attitude.  Then, good days will come again.

Tuesday, August 18, 2020

Daily Advice August 19, 2020

 


Daily Advice August 19, 2020


自討苦吃.   ***


如果做人太敏感

稍微有些小變化

就立即失去平衡

結果是自討苦吃


Ask for trouble.   ***


If people are too sensitive, they will lose  their sense of balance even there is a little change in their life.  Such behavior 

is equivalent to asking for trouble. 


酸甜苦辣 ***


人生有酸甜苦辣

冷暖只有自己知

只要樂意去接受

酸痛最終變甜蜜


ups and downs.   ***


 Life has ups and downs. Yet only you yourself can understand those feelings of being cold or being warm.  As long as one accepts reality, sooner or later the feeling of pain can change to be sweet. 

Daily Advice August 18, 2020.

 Daily Advice August 18, 2020


莫再提 ***


曾試過嘻嘻哈哈

曾苦過呼天叫地

一切都已經過去

往事最好莫再提


Let go off the past   ***


People had good laughing times and suffered bad times.  Yet those times are in the past.  It is better let go off the past. 


享樂當下。 ***


曾日日牽腸掛肚

曾勞力擔起個家

過去的就由它去

盡情去享樂當下


Enjoy the current moment.   ***


People have worried about making a living and have worked hard to take care of a family.  Those were the days.  Let them be the past bit enjoy the current moments. 

Daily Advice August 17, 2020

 Good Advice Part 5 or Enlighten 

(一言驚醒梦中人

A 10 minutes self help book offering pieces of doable advice to help people live a happier and more productive life. ‬


‪Order online: 

Available at Amazon.book or 

www.dorrancebookstore.com‬


‪Daily Advice‬

‪Author: Philip Chan‬

‪Email: goodadvicechan@gmail.com‬

‪www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com‬ 


Daily Advice August 17, 2020


杯酒同樂。 ***


退休時應有朋友

是多是少唔重要

重要是互相關懐

大家可杯酒同樂


Drink and Have fun.   ***


Whether people having one or more friends is not important.   What is more important is that people should have friends when they retire.  It is good to have friends caring each other. It is also equally good to have someone  to have social drinks and have fun with. 


珍惜朋友.    ***


珍惜身邊的朋友

莫低估朋友助力

遇到有困難之時

朋友可替你解愁


Cherish friends


Cherish your  friends around you.  Don't underestimate the power of having friends.  They can help comfort you when you are faced with diversity.  

 
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