Daily Advice February 1, 2019 少說多聽. Talk less, listen more

Daily Advice February 1, 2019. 

少說多聽.  ***

囉嗦不會受歡迎

不停重複継續説

這樣只會得人憎

最好是少說多聽

Talk less, listen more   ***

Continuously bugging will not be popular. 

If people repeat bugging, they will end up upsetting others.  It is better to talk less and listen more.

不順眼的事.   ***

看到不順眼的事

不理别人的感受

直説自己的不滿

會傷別人自卑感

Unpleasant  Event.   ***

When people see things that are not pleasing to their eyes, they immediately blast others without taking into consideration of other people’s feeling. 

Such behavior may hurt others' inferiority. 

Daily Advice January 31, 2019 真情去待人. Treat people with truth. ***

Daily Advice January 31, 2019. 

真情去待人.  ***

擁有真情去待人

加上寬容的心態

試問一聲怎可能

不受眾人歡迎呢

Treat people with truth.  ***

Treat people with honesty.  Forgive a little.  With such attitude, definitely these people are welcome everywhere they go. 

世界是現實.  ***

有魚有肉常見面

有苦有難無人幫

世界的確是現實

事事都要靠自己

The world is practical. ***

People will show up if there is s big feast of seafood and meat.  Yet no one will show up if you need assistance.  These are common behavior in a real world.  We cannot depend on others for help but our own self. 

Daily Advice January 30, 2019 情緒激動. Emotional Reaction. ***

Daily Advice January 30, 2019. 

情緒激動.  ***

當情緒激動之時

立即離場往別處

想想為什麼發怒

情緖會轉好一點

Emotional Reaction.  ***

When people are emotionally involved in an argument and lost their anger,  they should leave the site immediately.  Find a quiet place to cool down.  Recall what had happened and how it made them angry.  Such thinking may change their mood to become calmer. 

苦難會過去. ***

未必人人是幸運

人生難免有辛酸

無奈樂觀去接受

苦難遲早會過去

Suffering eventually will be in the pass. ***

Not everyone is lucky.   Life can inevitably be bitter.   Just be optimistic to accept reality.  Sooner or later, such terrible suffering will be gone. 

Daily Advice January 29, 2019 歡天喜地 Happiness

Daily Advice January 29, 2019. 

歡天喜地。 ***

若想開心過日子

想深一層並不難

只要是日行一善

自然會歡天喜地

Happiness  .::

If people want  to have fun and be happy, it isn’t hard to make it happen.   All one needs  to do is to perform one good deed everyday.  Such good deeds will make everyone happy. 

日行一善.  ***

日行一善也不難

得人喜愛已是善

給人方便也是善

成人之美更加善

A good deed per day.  ***

It isn’t difficult to perform one good deed daily.  If one‘s behavior is being loved by people, it is a good deed.   Another good deep is  to offer convenience to other.  Definitely helping others succeed is a good example of doing a good Deed. . 

Daily Advice January 28, 2019 自私自利. Selfishness

Daily Advice January 28, 2019. 

自私自利。 ***

人何必定要自私

自私自利沒好處

帶來的只是煩惱

而且會是得人僧

Selfishness  ***

Why are people selfish?    Selfishness is not good. It brings headache and troubles.  On top of that, such behavior becomes enemy of the people. 

靠自己.   ***

每一個人的一生

冷暖只有自己知

怎樣去應付命運

不可靠人靠自己

Count on your own self.  :::

Only one can feel one‘s own life of joy and bitterness.  Again one cannot depend on others to run their life.  Life relies on how one handles oneself. 

Daily Advice January 25, 2019 小心行走. Walk carefully.

Daily Advice January 25, 2019. 

小心行走.  ***

人生每天走的路

並不是一條直路

而是崎嘔不平的

所以要小心行走

Walk carefully.  ***

Life road may not necessarily be  flat and straightforward but a rough road.  Therefore be careful in walking through your life road. 

反老還童.   ***

不妨向小孩學習

小孩無知多純潔

跌倒受傷也不怕

爬起來從頭來過

Behave like a child.   ***

We certainly can learn something from the behavior of children.   Children are ignorant and innocent.  They are not afraid of falling and being injured.  They just climb up and start enjoying life. 

Daily Advice January 24, 2019 十全十美 No one is Perfect ***

Daily Advice January 24, 2019. 

十全十美。 ***

要朋友十全十美

其實是沒有可能

只要是真誠相待

已經是個好朋友

No one is Perfect   ***

Don’t expect friends to be perfect. Actually such expectation is impossible to become true.  As long as they are sincere and honest, they are good friends. 

十全十美。 ***

想成為十全十美

首先做人要知足

不要怨個人命運

要自己控制命運

Being Perfect.  ***

If people want to be perfect, first they should be contented with what they have.  

Do not blame their personal fate but control their own destiny. 

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Daily Advice January 23, 2019 幸福. Fortunate

Daily Advice January 23, 2019. 

幸福.  ***

人之所以有幸福

是別人沒法理解

幸福是個人修養

心態好自然幸福

Fortunate.   ***

No one can truly understand why some people are so fortunate.  Being  fortunate depends on individual’s self cultivation.   Being optimistic will bring in fortune.  

快樂過神仙.  ***

如果不與人計較

也都不與人攀比

煩惱自然會減少

定會快樂過神仙

Happier then fairies.  ***

If people do not cultivate with other people  and do not compare their life  with each other, naturally they have less worries.  With such lifestyle, they can be happier than fairies.

Daily Advice January 22, 2019 是苦或是甜. Is it bitter or sweet. ***

Daily Advice January 22, 2019. 

是苦或是甜.  ***

苦甜不是上天賜

而是個人的選擇

肯𡚒鬥努力去捱

苦難始終變成甜

Is it bitter or sweet.  ***

Bitterness or sweetness is not a gift from god.  It is a personal choice.  If people are willing to work hard and struggle for achieving their goal, they can turn bitter events into sweet ones.

珍惜機緣.    ***

事實不可以否認

時光易逝人易老

如果不珍惜機緣

逝去了永不復返

Cherish any opportunity.  ***

No one can deny the fact that people grow old fast.  Therefore one must cherish any opportunities coming along, otherwise once they are gone, they may never return. 

Daily Advice January 21, 2019 笑是最好 *To Laugh is good. ***

Daily Advice January 21, 2019. 

笑是最好  ***

人生會有哭有笑

笑是有益而無害

笑是無須要理由

最好能夠日日笑

To Laugh is good.  ***

In one’s life, it is common for people to cry or laugh.  Laughing is good and harmless.   People don’t need a reason to laugh.  It’s best to laugh every day.

男子可以哭.  ***

哭是沒分男或女

男子漢一樣可哭

無須要堅持堅強

而把抑鬱壓在內

Man can cry.  ***

There is no difference in crying between male or female.  Both have the right to cry.  

A man can cry and don’t have to suppress one’s feeling and dare not cry. 

Daily Advice January 18, 2019 真誠的友誼 Sincere friendship.

Daily Advice January 18, 2019. 

真誠的友誼.  ***

真正感情是付出

而不是想獲回報

這無條件的付出

的確是真誠友誼

Sincere friendship.  ***

True friendship is expected to give not to receive.   If one can perform unlimited forgiveness, such a relationship is indeed true friendship.  

老朋友。 ***

最美麗的是什麼

不是眼前的名利

是圍繞你的老友

好好珍惜老朋友

Good buddies.  ***

Where are the beautiful things ?   ***

What are the most beautiful things in life ?   

It isn’t fame or wealth.   It is your Good buddies.  Cherish such good buddies . 

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Daily Advice January 17, 2019 坦率. Honesty.

Daily Advice January 17, 2019. 

坦率.  ***

人與人能夠坦率

養成互相能信任

感情會更深一層

生活㑹豐富多彩

Honesty.    ***

Honesty can build mutual trust between people.  It is a way to develop more understanding and love.  Such behavior can make one’s life rich and colorful.

怎過每一天.   ***

憂鬱也要過一天

喜樂也是過一天

盡量享樂在今天

才算対得起上天

How to live  a day?   ***

Whether it is living hell or jumping for joy to go through a day, one should just enjoy one day at at a time.  Fully enjoying today is a smart thing to do and it is worth of its own.  

Daily Advice January 16, 2019 何必擔憂. Why worry? ***

Daily Advice January 16, 2019. 

何必擔憂.  *** 

人生何來定會是

天天都事事如意

既然如此莫擔憂

保持樂觀過日子

Why worry?   ***

Life is  very unlikely that everything turns out as one wishes daily.  If so, why worry ?  It is better to remain optimistic and live a happy life. 

樂觀過日子 ***

與人相處已經難

還事事爭一口氣

這樣怎會有幸福

何不樂觀過日子

It is already hard enough to get along with people.   Why fight for small trifles?  

How can there be happiness with arguments even though they may be small?   Why not be open minded and live optimistically? 

Daily Advice January 15, 2017 無須要比較. No need to compare. ***

Daily Advice January 15, 2019. 

無須要比較.  ***

不要和往日比較

因為再沒有義意

也不和現在比較

因為還有個未來

No need to compare.   *** 

There is no value in comparing the present with the past.  Comparing the present has no meaning as there is still an unknown future.  

影響友情 ***

為了小事來爭氣

弄到內心不寧靜

怎可能拹調平衡

到頭來影響友情

Endanger friendship.  ***

Fighting even with small things with friends will disturb one’s harmony.  Such activity will cause one’s mood to be imbalanced resulting in hurting one’s friendship .

Daily Advice January 14 友誼長存 Friendship forever

Daily Advice January 14, 2019. 

友誼長存. ***

相處要互相尊重

大家一定要做到

大小事互相包容

才可以友誼長存

Friendship forever.  ***

In order to get along with people, both parties must respect each other.  Be forgiving to each other even if it is a big argument.  Only with such behavior will the friendship last forever.  

快樂的日子.  ***

對人對事能做到

珍惜身邊的一切

感謝上天的恩賜

生活自然會快樂

Happy living. ***

Cherish people and everything around us and thank God for the gift of our daily life.  Such attitude will naturally lead to a joyful life. 

Daily Advice January 11,2019 衝量好與壞 The good and the bad ***

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Daily Advice January 11, 2018

衝量好與壞.  *** 

怎樣衝量好與壞

好人是可以做到

清楚分別善與惡

謹記著從善止惡

The good and the bad   *** 

Here is a way to measure what is good and what is bad.  If people can clearly distinguish between good and evil deeds and only carry good deeds and avoid evil deeds, they are good people. 

誠實不欺.  ***

好人有理解智慧

辦事會小心謹慎

從不占别人便宜

會做到誠實不欺

Honesty.  ***

Good people have the wisdom to understand to be cautious in handling everything they do.   Instead of bullying others, such people do not take advantage of others but be honest to each other. 

Daily Advice January 10， 2019 上等好人. Top class good people :::

Daily Advice January 10, 2018

上等好人.  ***

做個好人未必難

有正義感有真理

能做到見義勇為

已經是上等好人

Top class good people    :::

It isn’t too difficult to be a good person.   People with a sense of justice, being honest and willing to help others, are considered  to be top class good citizens. 

待人的態度.   ***

有質素和有修養

対人要謙虛有禮

這樣的態度待人

怎可以不是超人

Attitude.  ***

There are people with integrity and self-cultivation.  Such modesty and courtesy 

to others will win other people’s respect as super good people.