Daily Advice November 5, 2013 費時失事 A waste of time

十一月五日	November 5, 2013
費時失事  *** 為了小小一煩事 各有個人的立場 不肯和解和遷就 結果是費時失事	A waste of time ***    It is, in fact, a waste of time, if because of a small matter, one insists on one's opinion, and refuses to reconcile or accommodate any alternative idea.
共同利益  *** 如肯將你的問題 轉變為是我們的 認同為共同利益 調解會容易得多	Win win situation ***   If both parties want to resolve their differences, it is important not to mention the past but to look ahead and look for a way where both can come out as winners.