Daily Advice May 31, 2013 想活得輕鬆 Live a relaxing and simple life

五月三十一日	May 31, 2013
想活得輕鬆 *** 做人如果想輕鬆 最好能胸懷廣闊 對日常瑣碎煩事 通通都拋於腦後 對人間冷暖世情 肯願意不計前嫌 一切都付之一笑 生活會輕鬆愉快	Live a relaxing and simple life   *** If anyone wants to live a relaxing and simple life, one must first have an open mind.  Also they should not spend any energy on trivial matters, but get rid of all such annoyances.  Don’t take the types of attitude, people have towards you, too seriously.  As long as you are willing to forgive a little, and smile at all events, you will end up living a relaxing and simple life.
人比人 *** 人不應幸災樂禍 見比自己強的人 不應該心存忌妒 理應誠心去讚賀 跟他人虛心學習 見不如自己的人 不應該心存輕視 反而想辦法助人	People compare to people   *** There is a negative phrase which says “Be happy when you see other people suffer and wish people bad luck when people are having happy times.”  A gentleman should not behave like that.  He shouldn’t feel jealous when he sees other people doing better than himself.  Instead, he should praise these people, and learn something from them.  Also a gentleman should not look down on people when they are less fortunate.  Instead he should think of ways to help these people to extricate themselves from their unfortunate situation.