Daily Advice May 30, 2013 煩惱自尋 Asking for trouble

五月三十日	May 30, 2013
煩惱自尋 *** 煩惱自尋說得好 做人如果無計較 試問怎會有煩惱 就算有人有惡意 只要你是不在乎 無人可以激到你 到頭來受到激氣 不是你而是別人	Asking for trouble  ***        There is a saying, which states that “Trouble doesn’t come naturally, it is you who ask for it.”   This is well said.  When you deal with people, and you don’t make a fuss with everything, you will not have troubles.  Even if there are malicious people who want to hurt you, but if you don’t care what others do to you, you won’t get upset.  In the end, it is the people who want to hurt you end up getting hurt themselves.
少管閒事 *** 少管閒事少煩惱 多管閒事惹災禍 逢人只說三分話 是非最好不參與 緊記著一句說話 時常來說是非者 肯定是位是非者 遠離是非是最好	Mind your own business ***         If you only mind your own business, you will have fewer troubles.   But if you mind everybody else’s business, you will end up attracting trouble.   It is better to tell only 30% of what you intend to tell.  The best thing to do is not to get involved in unfounded rumors.  It is generally known that the one who comes to tell rumors is in fact, not an honest person. Most likely he/she is the one who spreads the unfounded rumors.  It is to your advantage to stay away from him/her.