Daily Advice May 9, 2012 盲目祟拜 Blind worship

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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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五月九日 May 9, 2012

盲目祟拜 ***

固執是盲目祟拜
以為比別人高明
聽不進別人意見
只堅持自己觀點
要別人同意己見
全沒有客觀態度
公平地評價別人
難免會與人爭執

Blind worship ***

Being stubborn is like worshipping something blindly. You think you’re smarter than others. As a result, you won’t listen to other people’s opinion but hold tightly onto your own. You even insist on other people to agree with your opinion. You end up having a subjective attitude and do not appraise anything fairly, on its own merits. In this situation, dispute among people is unavoidable.

固執 ***

做人不要太固執
固執益少而害多
使自卑者更焦慮
使多疑者更煩躁
憂鬱者更加沮喪
恐懼者更加不安
孤獨者更加冷落
悲傷者更加傷心

Being stubborn ***

Being stubborn doesn’t give you any benefits. On the contrary, it may cause you harm. It can make an inferior person feel more anxious, an over-suspicious person become agitated, a depressed person more depressed, a lonely person more isolated from others and a sad person become sadder.