Daily Advice August 12, 2014 説聲不字 Just say No

八月十二日	August 12, 2014
説聲不字  *** 如果能力辦不到 應坦白說聲不字 不應該怕會尷尬 否則會害人害己	Just say No ***   If people ask for assistance, and you don't have the ability to do it, just be honest and say "No."   There is no need to feel embarrassed; otherwise it is going to hurt both you and others.
一錯千古恨  *** 防人之心不可無 不可以只看外表 而忽略看透內函 做成一錯千古恨	Regret for life  ***   Always watch out for people.  Don't just look at their appearance.  Pay attention to their inner value and character traits; otherwise you may make a mistake that you will regret for life.