Daily ADvice April 11, 2011

四月十一日 April 11, 2011

無聲勝有聲***

當被别人誤解時
而你又不想爭辯
此時無聲勝有聲
如别人能了解你
無須要大聲解釋
無言以對是答案
如果是沒法理解
多說也無濟於事

Silence is better***

When other people misunderstand you and you don’t want to explain, being silent is the best approach. If people understand you, you don’t need to explain. Silence is, in fact, the right answer. If people intend not to understand you, your explanation doesn’t mean anything to them.


傾訴心聲***

試問世上有幾人
能做到雪中送炭
但錦上添花的人
偏偏是滿佈天下
有苦最好自己知
就算想與人吐苦
要找個可靠的人
才可以傾訴心聲

Find someone to talk to***

How many people are willing to deliver charcoal to people in winter times? But there are many people who are willing to deliver flowers to celebrate other people’s success. Be careful with whom you want to share your sorrow with. Only you, yourself, can understand what, and how you’re going through during your current rough times. Choose a person whom you can trust before you share your sorrow with him/her.

Philip Chan, author of “Good Advice”
Goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com