Daily Advice January 9, 2011

一月九日 January 9, 2011

以德報怨

如你不仁我不義
打一拳我踢一腳
從來不肯去罷休
無休無止鬥下去
這樣活著過日子
那就沒有意思了
怨怨相報何時了
何不試以德報怨

Returning good for evil

If you treat me badly, it is natural for me to do exactly the same to you. If you punch me, I will kick you. If you don’t give up but continue fighting with each other, is this kind of life a meaningful one for both of you? When will you be able to end this resentment? Why don’t you change your attitude and return good for evil?

寬容

寬容不等於吃虧
也不是不講原則
更不是不分是非
也不是盲目縱容
而是對無足小事
不須要斤斤計較
願意瀟灑地揮手
讓瑣事隨風而去

Tolerance


Exhibiting tolerance does not mean that you are permitting yourself to be bullied. Being tolerant doesn’t mean that you don’t believe in your own principles. It definitely doesn’t mean you don’t know right from wrong. It means that you don’t “sweat the small stuff” and you are not a calculating person. You are happy to let unimportant matters simply slip away.