Daily Advice June 2, 2011

六月二日 June 2, 2011

退一步***

人與人會有磨擦
難免有不如意事
但如果鑽牛角尖
不肯願意退一步
結果受傷最深的
好可能不是別人
而是你自己本身
退一步皆大歡喜

Give in a little***

Conflicts between people at times are unavoidable. When faced with such an unpleasant situation, you shouldn’t be stubborn. If you are not willing to give in a little, the person who got hurt the most might not be your opponent, it could be you. But, if you are willing to give in a little, you may allow both of you to have a way out and be accommodating to each other again in the future.

和藹共處***

能與人和藹共處
才可得真正安寧
否則與人來鬥氣
不是對方來害我
就是我來害對方
這樣鬥氣過日子
就算你贏又會點
試問有甚麼意義

Live in peace***

You can have a peaceful life only if you can get along well with other people. By contrast, if you fight with people for everything, you may end up being hurt or you will have hurt others. Even if you win every time there is a conflict, does that really make you happy? Is this life a meaningful one for you?

Philip Chan, author of “Good Advice”
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http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com