Daily Advice June 27, 2011

六月二十七日 June 27, 2011

知己有幾人***

知人口面不知心
試問相識滿天下
其實知己有幾人
雖然要將心比心
防人之心不可無
逢人最好三分話
不必全抛一片心
免得日後會傷心

How many trusted friends do you have?

Don’t judge people by their appearance. Although you may know many people, how many of them are your trusted friends? Although you care for people, you still have to be careful when dealing with people. It is safer not to tell everything to everyone you know, otherwise you may get hurt in the future.

何必憤怒***

當別人駡我之時
無須要過份憤怒
如果真的駡得對
應該反省和感恩
但如果駡得不對
這只是他的立場
他駡的人不是我
何必為此而憤怒

Why get angry?

When someone criticizes you, don’t get angry. If the other party criticizes you for a good reason, then you should engage in introspection and feel grateful. If the other party criticizes you for the wrong reason, then ignore him/her. After all this is only his/her point of view. In reality, the person whom he/she is criticizing is not you. You don’t have to get angry because of this.

Philip Chan, author of “Good Advice”
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