Daily Advice July 18, 2012 選友學問 Knowledge of building relationship

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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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七月十八日        July 18, 2012

選友學問 ***

選友是一門學問
高深莫測沒法解
益友可助你成功
損友可毀你一生
但有一點要明白
就算你以心待人
別人有自己選揀
未必對你也一樣

Knowledge of building relationship ***

Choosing a friend is an art. It is difficult to explain how to build a good relationship. Good friends can help you build your career but bad friends can ruin your career. There is one thing you ought to remember: even if you treat people with a kind heart, there is no guarantee people will choose to treat you the same. They have a choice in how they react to you.

防人之心 ***

知人口面不知心
防人之心不可無
切勿盲目亂信人
不可隨便去識人
識人一定要小心
不幸識錯了小人
隨時惹來一身蟻
弄到身上週身痕

Beware of people’s behavior ***

You may know people’s appearance but you may not know what they are thinking inside themselves. Therefore don’t blindly trust people, nor arbitrarily try to meet people. You must be careful when you meet a new person. If you mix with the wrong crowd, you may get yourself into trouble. This is like attracting a group of ants onto your body and they will make you itchy.

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These advice are on air in Canada. William Ho, morning host of Canada Chinese Radio Station (AM1470) shares these advice with his listeners in his program titled 一言驚醒夢中人 (One piece of smart advice to wake you up).