十一月一日
November 1, 2012
好人的行為 ***
小心要帶眼識人
好人不佔人便宜
好人不屈人害人
好人不作奸犯科
好人不說人是非
好人不欺騙別人
好人不狂妄自大
好人不妨結友誼
The good behavior ***
Be aware of the things that a gentleman will never do. They will never take advantage of people, never harm anyone, never commit any crimes, do not talk behind people’s back, never cheat others, and will never be arrogant. There is no harm in building relationships with gentlemen.
好人的表現 ***
好人做事是勤力
而且還懂得禮儀
內心是充滿善良
對自己充滿信心
辦事會有責任心
能和睦與人相處
不會為個人利益
而去出賣好朋友
The good performance of a gentleman ***
Good people are generally hardworking. They also possess good etiquette and have a kind heart. Not only are they full of confidence; they are responsible persons. They definitely can communicate and cooperate well with others. They will never betray their friends for their own benefits
Wednesday, October 31, 2012
Monday, October 29, 2012
Daily Advice October 30, 2012 保持清醒 Stay alert
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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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十月三十日 October 30, 2012
保持清醒 ***
貪念會令人亂性
勿貪一時之興奮
失去理智亂享樂
小心樂極會忘形
所以時時要清醒
認清有無走錯路
一旦走入黑暗路
永遠不會有光明
Stay alert ***
Being greedy may make you lose your mind. Don’t look for irrational pleasure just for a moment of excitement. Be careful and don’t get carried away to the degree that it becomes an issue. Therefore, always be alert and make sure you don’t enter the wrong side of the road; otherwise you end up driving in the dark and will never see the light.
最好低調些 ***
無論運氣好或壞
做人最好低調些
光鋒過露會惹禍
無謂惹小人妒忌
引來不必要麻煩
把精神留意身邊
注意有沒有貴人
善結人緣也無妨
It’s best to keep a low profile ***
Whether you are in power or not, it is best to keep a low profile. Being too outstanding may make people jealous and cause unnecessary trouble for yourself. Instead, pay attention to the people around you and you may find someone who is worthy, with whom you can develop a personal relationship to help your career development.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月三十日 October 30, 2012
保持清醒 ***
貪念會令人亂性
勿貪一時之興奮
失去理智亂享樂
小心樂極會忘形
所以時時要清醒
認清有無走錯路
一旦走入黑暗路
永遠不會有光明
Stay alert ***
Being greedy may make you lose your mind. Don’t look for irrational pleasure just for a moment of excitement. Be careful and don’t get carried away to the degree that it becomes an issue. Therefore, always be alert and make sure you don’t enter the wrong side of the road; otherwise you end up driving in the dark and will never see the light.
最好低調些 ***
無論運氣好或壞
做人最好低調些
光鋒過露會惹禍
無謂惹小人妒忌
引來不必要麻煩
把精神留意身邊
注意有沒有貴人
善結人緣也無妨
It’s best to keep a low profile ***
Whether you are in power or not, it is best to keep a low profile. Being too outstanding may make people jealous and cause unnecessary trouble for yourself. Instead, pay attention to the people around you and you may find someone who is worthy, with whom you can develop a personal relationship to help your career development.
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Daily Advice October 29, 2012 無悔的一生 Live a life of no regrets
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十九日 October 29, 2012
無悔的一生 ***
白髮告訴你甚麼
青春是不會長留
趁年輕有氣有力
及早立定個目標
立個有意義目標
向準目標向前行
算是對得起自己
留下無悔的一生
Live a life of no regrets ***
What does your white hair tell you? It shows that people cannot keep their youth forever. While you are young and strong, make sure you have a personal goal. Set a target to work towards achieving your goal. If you do that, you are doing something good for yourself and you should have a life of no regrets.
享樂大自然 ***
誰說人生是無聊
試找個陽光早晨
約埋幾個好知己
上山試試慢步遊
聽小鳥無愁細語
看看鳥兒自由飛
還有風聲樹搖聲
怎會無聊不開心
Enjoy nature ***
Who says life is boring? Try to find a sunny morning. Get together with your friends and go hiking. Listen to the birds singing their songs of no sorrow and flying freely in the sky. Enjoy the wind blowing the leaves and listen to the sound of swinging branches. How can you be bored anymore?
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十九日 October 29, 2012
無悔的一生 ***
白髮告訴你甚麼
青春是不會長留
趁年輕有氣有力
及早立定個目標
立個有意義目標
向準目標向前行
算是對得起自己
留下無悔的一生
Live a life of no regrets ***
What does your white hair tell you? It shows that people cannot keep their youth forever. While you are young and strong, make sure you have a personal goal. Set a target to work towards achieving your goal. If you do that, you are doing something good for yourself and you should have a life of no regrets.
享樂大自然 ***
誰說人生是無聊
試找個陽光早晨
約埋幾個好知己
上山試試慢步遊
聽小鳥無愁細語
看看鳥兒自由飛
還有風聲樹搖聲
怎會無聊不開心
Enjoy nature ***
Who says life is boring? Try to find a sunny morning. Get together with your friends and go hiking. Listen to the birds singing their songs of no sorrow and flying freely in the sky. Enjoy the wind blowing the leaves and listen to the sound of swinging branches. How can you be bored anymore?
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Daily Advice October 26, 2012 一種樂趣 A pleasure
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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十六日 October 26, 2012
一種樂趣 ***
有得忙當然是好
但不可以太疲倦
忙裡也都要偷閑
始終身體最重要
但有些食物想食
只要能得到快樂
間中享受個美餐
可算是一種樂趣
A pleasure ***
Being busy maybe a good thing but one should not totally exhaust one’s self. No matter how busy you are, you should still take a break. The most important thing in life is your health. If you want to eat something not so healthy but it makes you happy, go ahead and eat some. After all, if you don’t over-indulge, having a nice meal can be a kind of pleasure.
名利身外物 ***
若然得到了名利
但是失去了生命
那就是得不償失
名利只是身外物
為追求個人名利
而捱到身體孱弱
贏得來一個大病
這真是全不值得
You cannot carry fame with you ***
Even if you have gained fame and fortune, but you don’t have good health, what you gained cannot make up for what you have lost. Remember you cannot carry fame with you when you leave this world. It is totally not worth it if your health is compromised because of your extra efforts to pursuit fame.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十六日 October 26, 2012
一種樂趣 ***
有得忙當然是好
但不可以太疲倦
忙裡也都要偷閑
始終身體最重要
但有些食物想食
只要能得到快樂
間中享受個美餐
可算是一種樂趣
A pleasure ***
Being busy maybe a good thing but one should not totally exhaust one’s self. No matter how busy you are, you should still take a break. The most important thing in life is your health. If you want to eat something not so healthy but it makes you happy, go ahead and eat some. After all, if you don’t over-indulge, having a nice meal can be a kind of pleasure.
名利身外物 ***
若然得到了名利
但是失去了生命
那就是得不償失
名利只是身外物
為追求個人名利
而捱到身體孱弱
贏得來一個大病
這真是全不值得
You cannot carry fame with you ***
Even if you have gained fame and fortune, but you don’t have good health, what you gained cannot make up for what you have lost. Remember you cannot carry fame with you when you leave this world. It is totally not worth it if your health is compromised because of your extra efforts to pursuit fame.
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Daily Advice October 25, 2012 專心致志 The dedication
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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十五日 October 25, 2012
專心致志 ***
做事不專心致志
一定是不會成功
就算有多少成就
成績不會是優良
但如果專心致志
再加上愛業敬業
辦事會事半功倍
前途定會是無限
The dedication ***
If you don’t devote yourself with full focus to your job, it is very unlikely that you can be successful. Even if you have some achievements, those results will not be outstanding. But if you commit your full dedication, and demonstrate your love and respect for your job, you only need half the effort to complete your job with flying colors. You will then deserve to have a bright future.
勤力做 ***
做人不可以懶惰
環境隨時是會變
而且變得很突然
若然今日不勤力
他朝人老不值錢
到時搵食甚艱難
把握今天勤力做
蓄番個錢過晚年
Working hard ***
Don’t be lazy. Good days may not last forever and the environment around you can change. Unfortunately these changes come quickly and unexpectedly. If you don’t work hard now, you may not be able to get a good job when you grow old. Take advantage of the current situation and work hard to keep the job. Save as much as you can for the retirement days.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十五日 October 25, 2012
專心致志 ***
做事不專心致志
一定是不會成功
就算有多少成就
成績不會是優良
但如果專心致志
再加上愛業敬業
辦事會事半功倍
前途定會是無限
The dedication ***
If you don’t devote yourself with full focus to your job, it is very unlikely that you can be successful. Even if you have some achievements, those results will not be outstanding. But if you commit your full dedication, and demonstrate your love and respect for your job, you only need half the effort to complete your job with flying colors. You will then deserve to have a bright future.
勤力做 ***
做人不可以懶惰
環境隨時是會變
而且變得很突然
若然今日不勤力
他朝人老不值錢
到時搵食甚艱難
把握今天勤力做
蓄番個錢過晚年
Working hard ***
Don’t be lazy. Good days may not last forever and the environment around you can change. Unfortunately these changes come quickly and unexpectedly. If you don’t work hard now, you may not be able to get a good job when you grow old. Take advantage of the current situation and work hard to keep the job. Save as much as you can for the retirement days.
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Daily Advice October 24, 2012 心情是人為 Your mood is controlled by you ***
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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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十月二十四日 October 24, 2012
心情是人為 ***
心情開朗萬事興
苦悶心情不如意
心情好壞是人為
人人都可以領會
天摔落下當被蓋
船到橋頭自然直
時間會沖淡一切
一切煩惱化為塵
Your mood is controlled by you ***
When you are open-minded, everything will turn out as you wish. When you are in a depressed mood, nothing turns out to be right. Remember your mood is controlled by you. Try to appreciate this. Even if the sky falls down, you just treat it as a blanket. Things will find their way out like when a ship docks, it will always end up straight. Time will heal everything and all troubles will be gone.
人生觀 ***
心情好壞人生觀
好時面色笑開顏
事事順景人開胃
壞時面色苦瓜乾
頭頭碰著不如意
好壞心情靠自己
凡事向好方面想
煩惱離身鴻運到
Attitude ***
How life looks to you depends on your attitude. When you are in a good mood, you will always wear a smiling face. Everything will turn out well, and even your appetite will be good too. But when you are in a bad mood, you will wear a sad face. You will bump into unpleasant events. Remember that no one controls your own mood. If you think of the bright side of everything, you will slough off your worries and you will have your own luck.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十四日 October 24, 2012
心情是人為 ***
心情開朗萬事興
苦悶心情不如意
心情好壞是人為
人人都可以領會
天摔落下當被蓋
船到橋頭自然直
時間會沖淡一切
一切煩惱化為塵
Your mood is controlled by you ***
When you are open-minded, everything will turn out as you wish. When you are in a depressed mood, nothing turns out to be right. Remember your mood is controlled by you. Try to appreciate this. Even if the sky falls down, you just treat it as a blanket. Things will find their way out like when a ship docks, it will always end up straight. Time will heal everything and all troubles will be gone.
人生觀 ***
心情好壞人生觀
好時面色笑開顏
事事順景人開胃
壞時面色苦瓜乾
頭頭碰著不如意
好壞心情靠自己
凡事向好方面想
煩惱離身鴻運到
Attitude ***
How life looks to you depends on your attitude. When you are in a good mood, you will always wear a smiling face. Everything will turn out well, and even your appetite will be good too. But when you are in a bad mood, you will wear a sad face. You will bump into unpleasant events. Remember that no one controls your own mood. If you think of the bright side of everything, you will slough off your worries and you will have your own luck.
Monday, October 22, 2012
Daily Advice October 23, 2012 重陽節 Chung Yeung Festival
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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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十月二十三日 October 23, 2012
重陽節 ***
重陽節日倍思親
懷念古人定難免
傷心流淚是正常
無須掩飾怕人看
有情有義有淚水
淚水汪汪是真情
真情流淚思古人
往日恩情永難忘
Chung Yeung Festival ***
During Chung Yeung Festival, it is natural to think of your loved ones, who are no longer here, and cry. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed if people see you cry. As long as you love your deceased family members, your tears are a reflection of how much you miss them. Don’t worry how people look at you. It is natural to shed tears and think of the good old days with your loved ones.
懷念古人 ***
重陽掃墓上柱香
誠心感恩拜父母
父母親情永難忘
今生今世報不完
來生再報父母恩
夫妻緣盡也分離
重陽上香感情緣
來生再續未了情
Missing your loved ones
While visiting graves during Chung Yeung Festival, people burn a stick of incense to pay respect to their ancestors. A measure of how grateful people are lies in the fact that, they will never forget how their parents took care of them and they will never be able to pay back enough for their parents’ love. What they can wish for is to repay such love in their next lives. All love relationships will end someday. Again, burning a stick of incense can be a way to express your true love. At this time what you can do is to wish that you can continue your loving relationship in your next lives.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十三日 October 23, 2012
重陽節 ***
重陽節日倍思親
懷念古人定難免
傷心流淚是正常
無須掩飾怕人看
有情有義有淚水
淚水汪汪是真情
真情流淚思古人
往日恩情永難忘
Chung Yeung Festival ***
During Chung Yeung Festival, it is natural to think of your loved ones, who are no longer here, and cry. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed if people see you cry. As long as you love your deceased family members, your tears are a reflection of how much you miss them. Don’t worry how people look at you. It is natural to shed tears and think of the good old days with your loved ones.
懷念古人 ***
重陽掃墓上柱香
誠心感恩拜父母
父母親情永難忘
今生今世報不完
來生再報父母恩
夫妻緣盡也分離
重陽上香感情緣
來生再續未了情
Missing your loved ones
While visiting graves during Chung Yeung Festival, people burn a stick of incense to pay respect to their ancestors. A measure of how grateful people are lies in the fact that, they will never forget how their parents took care of them and they will never be able to pay back enough for their parents’ love. What they can wish for is to repay such love in their next lives. All love relationships will end someday. Again, burning a stick of incense can be a way to express your true love. At this time what you can do is to wish that you can continue your loving relationship in your next lives.
Sunday, October 21, 2012
Daily Advice October 22, 2012 人浮於事 Oversupply of labor
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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十二日 October 22, 2012
人浮於事 ***
人浮於事的社會
若想老闆來青睞
首先看你的表現
自己本份的工作
是否自動去完成
再去看你的才能
是否能按時完成
是否完成得出色
Oversupply of labor ***
If you want your boss to notice your talent in this world of oversupply of labor, you need to evaluate your own behavior. Ask yourself whether you take initiative to carry out your duty, whether you deliver your commitment on time and how well you perform your own job.
不可盡取 ***
有才能不可傲盡
才可得別人尊敬
得理時不必搶盡
才可得別人認同
有氣勢不必倚盡
才贏得口服心服
富貴時不必盡享
才可保長命富貴
Don’t go to the extreme ***
Even if you are a talented person, don’t be arrogant, otherwise you won’t win the respect of others. Even when you are right, don’t claim 100% of the credit; otherwise people may not agree with you 100% of the time. When you have power, don’t use it to the extreme; otherwise you only gain lip service. When you are wealthy, don’t spend extravagantly. If you can do that, you will be able to enjoy your wealth for a long time.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二十二日 October 22, 2012
人浮於事 ***
人浮於事的社會
若想老闆來青睞
首先看你的表現
自己本份的工作
是否自動去完成
再去看你的才能
是否能按時完成
是否完成得出色
Oversupply of labor ***
If you want your boss to notice your talent in this world of oversupply of labor, you need to evaluate your own behavior. Ask yourself whether you take initiative to carry out your duty, whether you deliver your commitment on time and how well you perform your own job.
不可盡取 ***
有才能不可傲盡
才可得別人尊敬
得理時不必搶盡
才可得別人認同
有氣勢不必倚盡
才贏得口服心服
富貴時不必盡享
才可保長命富貴
Don’t go to the extreme ***
Even if you are a talented person, don’t be arrogant, otherwise you won’t win the respect of others. Even when you are right, don’t claim 100% of the credit; otherwise people may not agree with you 100% of the time. When you have power, don’t use it to the extreme; otherwise you only gain lip service. When you are wealthy, don’t spend extravagantly. If you can do that, you will be able to enjoy your wealth for a long time.
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Daily Advice October 18, 2012 自取沒趣 Ask for embarrassment
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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十八日 October 18, 2012
自取沒趣 ***
莫以為懂得小小
便覺別人不如已
高傲看不起別人
還大聲高談闊論
其實所知是有限
見識少沒有視野
未必得別人認同
到頭來自取沒趣
Ask for embarrassment ***
Don’t look down at others because you are a little bit more knowledgeable. Don’t be arrogant and speak loudly as if you know everything. Possibly, you may know very little especially when you don’t have a long term view. No one will respect you when you behave like this. In fact, what you are doing is looking to be embarrassed.
螳螂捕蟬 ***
常言道螳螂捕蟬
忘記了黃雀在後
人迷失於個利字
而忘了害字在後
就等於螳螂捕蟬
而黃雀戄食螳螂
做人要銘記於心
不可重利而忘害
Don’t be blinded by greed ***
It is often said the Praying Mantis always stalks the Cicada. Yet the Mantis forgets there is Oriole watching him from behind. Similarly people are obsessed by chasing wealth and forget that there maybe disaster looming. It is like the Mantis catching the Cicada but ultimately being eaten by the Oriole. We should remind ourselves that we should focus not only on pursuing wealth, but also not to forget about any harm that such action may bring.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十八日 October 18, 2012
自取沒趣 ***
莫以為懂得小小
便覺別人不如已
高傲看不起別人
還大聲高談闊論
其實所知是有限
見識少沒有視野
未必得別人認同
到頭來自取沒趣
Ask for embarrassment ***
Don’t look down at others because you are a little bit more knowledgeable. Don’t be arrogant and speak loudly as if you know everything. Possibly, you may know very little especially when you don’t have a long term view. No one will respect you when you behave like this. In fact, what you are doing is looking to be embarrassed.
螳螂捕蟬 ***
常言道螳螂捕蟬
忘記了黃雀在後
人迷失於個利字
而忘了害字在後
就等於螳螂捕蟬
而黃雀戄食螳螂
做人要銘記於心
不可重利而忘害
Don’t be blinded by greed ***
It is often said the Praying Mantis always stalks the Cicada. Yet the Mantis forgets there is Oriole watching him from behind. Similarly people are obsessed by chasing wealth and forget that there maybe disaster looming. It is like the Mantis catching the Cicada but ultimately being eaten by the Oriole. We should remind ourselves that we should focus not only on pursuing wealth, but also not to forget about any harm that such action may bring.
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Daily Advice October 17, 2012 幸運之人 Lucky man
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作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
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www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十七日 October 17, 2012
幸運之人 ***
失敗歸罪於不幸
其實是自欺欺人
失敗乃成功之母
人生如花開花落
難免會有得有失
更難免有苦有樂
不為低潮而沮喪
才是個幸運之人
Lucky man ***
Don’t blame misfortune as the cause of your failures. If you do that, you are in fact fooling yourself. Don’t forget that “failure is the mother of success.” Life is like a blooming flower: it blooms and it withers. It is inevitable that life has success, failures, joy and pain. Don’t be depressed when faced with bad times. Your luck will turn around.
失敗 ***
失敗了無須絕望
可從中吸取經驗
無須太在意結果
而弄到無臉見人
最可貴還是過程
過程中已盡全力
可算對得起自己
經一事會長一智
Failures ***
Don’t despair even if you fail. Learn from such an experience. Don’t focus too much on the end result and don’t worry how people may look at you. What is more important is how much effort you have put in. If you have tried your best, you are fair to your own self. You become smarter because you have gained a valuable experience.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十七日 October 17, 2012
幸運之人 ***
失敗歸罪於不幸
其實是自欺欺人
失敗乃成功之母
人生如花開花落
難免會有得有失
更難免有苦有樂
不為低潮而沮喪
才是個幸運之人
Lucky man ***
Don’t blame misfortune as the cause of your failures. If you do that, you are in fact fooling yourself. Don’t forget that “failure is the mother of success.” Life is like a blooming flower: it blooms and it withers. It is inevitable that life has success, failures, joy and pain. Don’t be depressed when faced with bad times. Your luck will turn around.
失敗 ***
失敗了無須絕望
可從中吸取經驗
無須太在意結果
而弄到無臉見人
最可貴還是過程
過程中已盡全力
可算對得起自己
經一事會長一智
Failures ***
Don’t despair even if you fail. Learn from such an experience. Don’t focus too much on the end result and don’t worry how people may look at you. What is more important is how much effort you have put in. If you have tried your best, you are fair to your own self. You become smarter because you have gained a valuable experience.
Monday, October 15, 2012
Daily Advice October 16, 2012 不如意事多 Life is full of unhappy events
十月十六日 October 16, 2012
不如意事多 ***
人生不如意事多
情緒激動難克制
手足無措易沮喪
茶飯不思沒精神
此時一定要樂觀
本著能忍隨緣心
原諒所有人和事
心情自然會好轉
Life is full of unhappy events ***
When faced with adversity, it is understandable that some people may be emotionally upset. They may feel helplessly frustrated, resulting in loss of appetite. At this moment, it is advisable to remain positive. If you can be patient, go with the flow and forgive a little, you will then be more receptive to deal with the situation.
驕者必敗 ***
人皆知月滿則虧
這是自然界現象
人一樣驕者必敗
這也是世之常理
做人要保持謙虛
凡事不求太巔峰
最好做到留餘地
一切要適可而止
Pride may destroy you ***
Everyone knows the moon cannot always be full. This is due to the phenomenon of nature. People should have the sense of understanding that pride may destroy them. Therefore people should be humble and modest. Don’t always ask for the best of everything for yourself. Always leave some room for others. The best is to keep everything in moderation.
不如意事多 ***
人生不如意事多
情緒激動難克制
手足無措易沮喪
茶飯不思沒精神
此時一定要樂觀
本著能忍隨緣心
原諒所有人和事
心情自然會好轉
Life is full of unhappy events ***
When faced with adversity, it is understandable that some people may be emotionally upset. They may feel helplessly frustrated, resulting in loss of appetite. At this moment, it is advisable to remain positive. If you can be patient, go with the flow and forgive a little, you will then be more receptive to deal with the situation.
驕者必敗 ***
人皆知月滿則虧
這是自然界現象
人一樣驕者必敗
這也是世之常理
做人要保持謙虛
凡事不求太巔峰
最好做到留餘地
一切要適可而止
Pride may destroy you ***
Everyone knows the moon cannot always be full. This is due to the phenomenon of nature. People should have the sense of understanding that pride may destroy them. Therefore people should be humble and modest. Don’t always ask for the best of everything for yourself. Always leave some room for others. The best is to keep everything in moderation.
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Daily Advice October 15, 2012 成功之路 The road to success
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十五日 October 15, 2012
成功之路 ***
欲求達上成功路
首先不看輕自己
發奮圖強去做人
世上根本無難事
在乎有沒有信心
以為不可能的事
本著苦幹的精神
不可能可變可能
The road to success ***
If you want to get onto the road to success, first of all, don’t belittle yourself. Then, you need to work hard towards your personal goal. There is no rocket science. If you want to succeed, you need to have confidence in yourself. Even though other people may think that what you are doing is impossible, you can make the impossible become possible by working diligently with the spirit of self confidence.
不要灰心 ***
遇到困難的時候
不要灰心要努力
不要流淚要流汗
不要沮喪要抬頭
不要放棄要奮鬥
不要怨天要積極
機會是源源不絕
總會有出頭日子
Don't be discouraged ***
Don't be discouraged from working even though you may be facing difficulties. Don’t shed tears but rather shed sweat. Don’t be dispirited but raise your head to look forward. Don’t give up but work harder. Don’t blame anyone but be positive. Opportunities always exist. Be patient and you will have your chance to be successful.
Please note daily advice are published daily from Monday through Friday on
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
These advice are on air in Canada. William Ho, morning host of Canada Chinese Radio Station (AM1470) shares these advice with his listeners in his program titled 一言驚醒夢中人 (One piece of smart advice to wake you up).
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十五日 October 15, 2012
成功之路 ***
欲求達上成功路
首先不看輕自己
發奮圖強去做人
世上根本無難事
在乎有沒有信心
以為不可能的事
本著苦幹的精神
不可能可變可能
The road to success ***
If you want to get onto the road to success, first of all, don’t belittle yourself. Then, you need to work hard towards your personal goal. There is no rocket science. If you want to succeed, you need to have confidence in yourself. Even though other people may think that what you are doing is impossible, you can make the impossible become possible by working diligently with the spirit of self confidence.
不要灰心 ***
遇到困難的時候
不要灰心要努力
不要流淚要流汗
不要沮喪要抬頭
不要放棄要奮鬥
不要怨天要積極
機會是源源不絕
總會有出頭日子
Don't be discouraged ***
Don't be discouraged from working even though you may be facing difficulties. Don’t shed tears but rather shed sweat. Don’t be dispirited but raise your head to look forward. Don’t give up but work harder. Don’t blame anyone but be positive. Opportunities always exist. Be patient and you will have your chance to be successful.
Please note daily advice are published daily from Monday through Friday on
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
These advice are on air in Canada. William Ho, morning host of Canada Chinese Radio Station (AM1470) shares these advice with his listeners in his program titled 一言驚醒夢中人 (One piece of smart advice to wake you up).
Thursday, October 11, 2012
Daily Advice October 12, 2012 吹水聊天 Chit chat with your good friends
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十二日 October 12, 2012
吹水聊天 ***
人人都會有壓力
忍受上司的呵斥
應付同事的排擠
還有家庭的難題
彷彿是世界末日
又像催命的喪鐘
此時最好去散心
知己同聚吹下水
Chit chat with your good friends ***
Everyone has some kind of stress e.g. endurance of your supervisor’s unfair treatment, facing exclusion by your colleagues, or dealing with family problems. Any one of these will make you feel like it is the end of the world or as if the death bell is ringing to welcome you. Under this situation, you are better off if you spend time to “chit chat” with your good friends.
生活情趣 ***
選擇是生活情趣
當遇上不如意事
你可以選擇放棄
又或者選擇自信
把自卑心態拋開
品嘗自信的滋味
面對不如意之事
有信心定可解難
Lifestyle and personal taste ***
Having a choice is part of any lifestyle and a matter of personal taste. When you are faced with unhappy events, you have choices. You can chose to give up or build up your confidence, throw away your low-esteem, and use self-confidence to address your unhappy situation.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十二日 October 12, 2012
吹水聊天 ***
人人都會有壓力
忍受上司的呵斥
應付同事的排擠
還有家庭的難題
彷彿是世界末日
又像催命的喪鐘
此時最好去散心
知己同聚吹下水
Chit chat with your good friends ***
Everyone has some kind of stress e.g. endurance of your supervisor’s unfair treatment, facing exclusion by your colleagues, or dealing with family problems. Any one of these will make you feel like it is the end of the world or as if the death bell is ringing to welcome you. Under this situation, you are better off if you spend time to “chit chat” with your good friends.
生活情趣 ***
選擇是生活情趣
當遇上不如意事
你可以選擇放棄
又或者選擇自信
把自卑心態拋開
品嘗自信的滋味
面對不如意之事
有信心定可解難
Lifestyle and personal taste ***
Having a choice is part of any lifestyle and a matter of personal taste. When you are faced with unhappy events, you have choices. You can chose to give up or build up your confidence, throw away your low-esteem, and use self-confidence to address your unhappy situation.
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Daily Advice October 11, 2012 自知之明 Self-recognition
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十一日 October 11, 2012
自知之明 ***
人要有自知之明
除了知自己長處
也要知自己短處
不可以執迷不悟
莫高估自己聰明
為小聰明而高傲
應該要不停改進
辦事才不會失敗
Self-recognition ***
People need to have self-knowledge to recognize their own strengths. They should know their own talent and their weaknesses. Don’t be stubborn and over estimate your potential. There is no need to be proud of your wisdom. We should continuously improve ourselves to prevent us from suffering a failure.
量力而為 ***
莫過份高估自己
不知道個人力量
對未能勝任之事
盲目去執行任務
這樣會招致危機
難免會惹來禍患
甚至會害人害己
做事要量力而為
Work within your limit ***
Don't overestimate your talent. If you don’t know your limit and go ahead to commit to do something, that you are not capable to deliver, this can be a dangerous attempt. You may create problems not only for yourself but affect others as well. Therefore, only promise to deliver what your capacity allows you to do.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十一日 October 11, 2012
自知之明 ***
人要有自知之明
除了知自己長處
也要知自己短處
不可以執迷不悟
莫高估自己聰明
為小聰明而高傲
應該要不停改進
辦事才不會失敗
Self-recognition ***
People need to have self-knowledge to recognize their own strengths. They should know their own talent and their weaknesses. Don’t be stubborn and over estimate your potential. There is no need to be proud of your wisdom. We should continuously improve ourselves to prevent us from suffering a failure.
量力而為 ***
莫過份高估自己
不知道個人力量
對未能勝任之事
盲目去執行任務
這樣會招致危機
難免會惹來禍患
甚至會害人害己
做事要量力而為
Work within your limit ***
Don't overestimate your talent. If you don’t know your limit and go ahead to commit to do something, that you are not capable to deliver, this can be a dangerous attempt. You may create problems not only for yourself but affect others as well. Therefore, only promise to deliver what your capacity allows you to do.
Daily Advice October 10, 2012 創一番大事 Building a big career
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十日 October 10, 2012
創一番大事 ***
要想創一番大事
不可以沒有大志
立志是起步動力
只要有高遠目標
奮鬥不息的精神
便可上成功之路
如果做人志不立
則沒可能會成功
Building a big career ***
If you want to build a big career, you must have an ambition and a career goal. Having an ambition is the first step but you must have a long term goal and be willing to struggle with vigor. Only if you possess such qualities, will you be able to succeed. If you don’t have a goal, you will never be successful.
自信 ***
讓自信伴隨著你
一齊走生命旅程
自信帶來新希望
使內心陽光燦爛
把自卑拋離身外
去除內心的彷徨
燃起了希望之光
走出一條新出路
Self-confidence ***
It is always good to embrace confidence. Make it a part of you throughout your life’s journey. Confidence gives you new hope. It can make you shine inside and kick out your inner anxiety, your physical and mental limitations. It ignites the light of hope and creates new outlets for your potential.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月十日 October 10, 2012
創一番大事 ***
要想創一番大事
不可以沒有大志
立志是起步動力
只要有高遠目標
奮鬥不息的精神
便可上成功之路
如果做人志不立
則沒可能會成功
Building a big career ***
If you want to build a big career, you must have an ambition and a career goal. Having an ambition is the first step but you must have a long term goal and be willing to struggle with vigor. Only if you possess such qualities, will you be able to succeed. If you don’t have a goal, you will never be successful.
自信 ***
讓自信伴隨著你
一齊走生命旅程
自信帶來新希望
使內心陽光燦爛
把自卑拋離身外
去除內心的彷徨
燃起了希望之光
走出一條新出路
Self-confidence ***
It is always good to embrace confidence. Make it a part of you throughout your life’s journey. Confidence gives you new hope. It can make you shine inside and kick out your inner anxiety, your physical and mental limitations. It ignites the light of hope and creates new outlets for your potential.
Monday, October 8, 2012
Daily Advice October 9, 2012 水深火熱 Being pushed into deep water or a strong fire ***
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月九日 October 9, 2012
水深火熱 ***
水深火熱的感覺
的而且確是難受
謹記做人不應該
把別人拋進水深
也不應推進火熱
如待人水深火熱
只會令別人反感
甚至當你是仇人
Being pushed into deep water or a strong fire ***
The feeling of being pushed into deep water or a strong fire definitely is not a comfortable feeling. We all should remember that we should not push people into deep water or a strong fire. But if we do push people into either deep water or a strong fire, people will be offended. They may treat you as their enemies.
一家人 ***
如能做到工作上
大家像是一家人
無私地互相幫助
辦起事來多方便
不偏公也不偏私
這樣處事的態度
可助建立好人緣
大家會合作愉快
Treat people as part of a family ***
If you treat everyone as if they were a family member, and you are willing to help them selflessly, people will cooperate with you. As long as both of you do not play favorites, you will be able to build good relationships. This is a good way to promote cooperation.
Please note daily advice are published daily from Monday through Friday on
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
These advice are on air in Canada. William Ho, morning host of Canada Chinese Radio Station (AM1470) shares these advice with his listeners in his program titled 一言驚醒夢中人 (One piece of smart advice to wake you up).
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月九日 October 9, 2012
水深火熱 ***
水深火熱的感覺
的而且確是難受
謹記做人不應該
把別人拋進水深
也不應推進火熱
如待人水深火熱
只會令別人反感
甚至當你是仇人
Being pushed into deep water or a strong fire ***
The feeling of being pushed into deep water or a strong fire definitely is not a comfortable feeling. We all should remember that we should not push people into deep water or a strong fire. But if we do push people into either deep water or a strong fire, people will be offended. They may treat you as their enemies.
一家人 ***
如能做到工作上
大家像是一家人
無私地互相幫助
辦起事來多方便
不偏公也不偏私
這樣處事的態度
可助建立好人緣
大家會合作愉快
Treat people as part of a family ***
If you treat everyone as if they were a family member, and you are willing to help them selflessly, people will cooperate with you. As long as both of you do not play favorites, you will be able to build good relationships. This is a good way to promote cooperation.
Please note daily advice are published daily from Monday through Friday on
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
These advice are on air in Canada. William Ho, morning host of Canada Chinese Radio Station (AM1470) shares these advice with his listeners in his program titled 一言驚醒夢中人 (One piece of smart advice to wake you up).
Sunday, October 7, 2012
Daily Advice October 8, 2012 簡簡單單 A simple life
十月八日 October 8, 2012
簡簡單單 ***
一時貪念的偏差
可造成一生遺憾
日常生活如清淡
可算是一種情趣
簡簡單單過曰子
煩惱自然一定少
休閒自在過曰子
心情容易會開朗
A simple life ***
Because of greed, one may do something that later can cause regrets in life. Therefore if you are willing to live a simple life, it can be a kind of tasteful lifestyle. Living a simple life will not incur many troubles. Naturally such lifestyle can be very relaxing and you will feel cheerful at all times.
快樂在身旁 ***
你或者未領悟到
快樂分秒在身旁
只是你讓它溜走
沒好好地抓著它
如果能保持樂觀
能提得起放得下
生活會活得輕鬆
快樂會天天纏身
Happiness is always with you ***
You may not realize that happiness is always with you. Most likely you let it slip through your fingers. You miss the chance of grasping it. If you can maintain a positive attitude and can take anything up and let it down easily, you will find life is more relaxing and can feel happiness is always with you.
簡簡單單 ***
一時貪念的偏差
可造成一生遺憾
日常生活如清淡
可算是一種情趣
簡簡單單過曰子
煩惱自然一定少
休閒自在過曰子
心情容易會開朗
A simple life ***
Because of greed, one may do something that later can cause regrets in life. Therefore if you are willing to live a simple life, it can be a kind of tasteful lifestyle. Living a simple life will not incur many troubles. Naturally such lifestyle can be very relaxing and you will feel cheerful at all times.
快樂在身旁 ***
你或者未領悟到
快樂分秒在身旁
只是你讓它溜走
沒好好地抓著它
如果能保持樂觀
能提得起放得下
生活會活得輕鬆
快樂會天天纏身
Happiness is always with you ***
You may not realize that happiness is always with you. Most likely you let it slip through your fingers. You miss the chance of grasping it. If you can maintain a positive attitude and can take anything up and let it down easily, you will find life is more relaxing and can feel happiness is always with you.
Thursday, October 4, 2012
Daily Advice October 5, 2012 不要與人比 Do not compare yourself to others
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月五日 October 5, 2012
不要與人比 ***
人無須要與人比
即使目前是貧窮
也無須一定悲觀
把貧窮當作動力
作為是個人資本
憑著個人的奮鬥
遲早會創出財富
為自己創番事業
Do not compare yourself to others ***
Don’t compare yourself to others even when you are facing poverty. There is no reason to be pessimistic. Treat poverty as a source of will power and as an individual’s capital. If you are willing to struggle through these difficult times, you will be able to create wealth. It is only a matter of time that you will build a career for yourself.
出人頭地 ***
人人有不同挑戰
也都有不同機會
只是個人的目光
選擇了個人命運
要認清個人長短
掩飾個人的短處
利用長處來立足
定可以出人頭地
Be somebody ***
Everyone has both different challenges and different opportunities. It is one’s desire and choice that dictate one’s destiny. What you need to do is to understand your own self. Know your talents and your shortcomings. Make good use of your talents to help you build a career and you will stand out to become somebody.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月五日 October 5, 2012
不要與人比 ***
人無須要與人比
即使目前是貧窮
也無須一定悲觀
把貧窮當作動力
作為是個人資本
憑著個人的奮鬥
遲早會創出財富
為自己創番事業
Do not compare yourself to others ***
Don’t compare yourself to others even when you are facing poverty. There is no reason to be pessimistic. Treat poverty as a source of will power and as an individual’s capital. If you are willing to struggle through these difficult times, you will be able to create wealth. It is only a matter of time that you will build a career for yourself.
出人頭地 ***
人人有不同挑戰
也都有不同機會
只是個人的目光
選擇了個人命運
要認清個人長短
掩飾個人的短處
利用長處來立足
定可以出人頭地
Be somebody ***
Everyone has both different challenges and different opportunities. It is one’s desire and choice that dictate one’s destiny. What you need to do is to understand your own self. Know your talents and your shortcomings. Make good use of your talents to help you build a career and you will stand out to become somebody.
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Daily Advice October 4, 2012 東山再起 Come back
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月四日 October 4, 2012
東山再起 ***
成功者面對失敗
會懂得韜光養晦
首先會休養生息
精打細算怎再起
坐等時機再重來
先來一個小勝利
但當大勝來慶祝
重振雄風重頭來
Come back ***
When winners face failure, they know how to deal with such a situation. First, they need to recuperate. Then, they will think carefully what to do next. Prepare themselves and wait for a new opportunity. Try to win a small victory but make sure to celebrate such victory as if it is a big victory. Only if you have such desire to move forward, will you be brave enough to come back to win again.
創一番事業 ***
想成就一番事業
胸襟要豁達一些
眼光要長遠一些
清楚自己要甚麼
及早立定個目標
專心專意去追求
不怕艱苦要努力
直到成功才停止
Develop a career ***
If you want to develop a career, you must be open-minded, have foresight, understand what you need, and set a personal goal. Focus on moving ahead to pursue your goal. Don’t be afraid of any difficulties. Concentrate on achieving your goal until you can attain it.
Please note daily advice are published daily from Monday through Friday on
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
These advice are on air in Canada. William Ho, morning host of Canada Chinese Radio Station (AM1470) shares these advice with his listeners in his program titled 一言驚醒夢中人 (One piece of smart advice to wake you up).
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月四日 October 4, 2012
東山再起 ***
成功者面對失敗
會懂得韜光養晦
首先會休養生息
精打細算怎再起
坐等時機再重來
先來一個小勝利
但當大勝來慶祝
重振雄風重頭來
Come back ***
When winners face failure, they know how to deal with such a situation. First, they need to recuperate. Then, they will think carefully what to do next. Prepare themselves and wait for a new opportunity. Try to win a small victory but make sure to celebrate such victory as if it is a big victory. Only if you have such desire to move forward, will you be brave enough to come back to win again.
創一番事業 ***
想成就一番事業
胸襟要豁達一些
眼光要長遠一些
清楚自己要甚麼
及早立定個目標
專心專意去追求
不怕艱苦要努力
直到成功才停止
Develop a career ***
If you want to develop a career, you must be open-minded, have foresight, understand what you need, and set a personal goal. Focus on moving ahead to pursue your goal. Don’t be afraid of any difficulties. Concentrate on achieving your goal until you can attain it.
Please note daily advice are published daily from Monday through Friday on
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
These advice are on air in Canada. William Ho, morning host of Canada Chinese Radio Station (AM1470) shares these advice with his listeners in his program titled 一言驚醒夢中人 (One piece of smart advice to wake you up).
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Daily Advice October 3, 2012 撞船大災難 Hong Kong Ferry collision catastrophe
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月三日 October 3, 2012
撞船大災難 ***
香港撞船大災難
死傷人數三十八
港人激動會落淚
政府宣佈下半旗
誠心向死者致哀
死者家人要堅強
接受命運的挑戰
隨緣勇敢向前行
Hong Kong Ferry collision catastrophe ***
The number of deaths in a Hong Kong Ferry collision is 38. People shed tears when they hear about this disaster. Government announced to lower their flags to show their respect for the victims. We wish all the victims’ family members be strong and accept the challenge of life’s destiny. Be brave to accept reality and move forward.
接受現實 ***
不如意時常八九
遭受到挫折之時
苦口苦臉沒好處
何不學笑看人生
接受命運的安排
本著寧靜的心態
勇敢隨緣去面對
生活會輕鬆一些
Accept your destiny ***
Eight or nine out of ten life events are disappointments. When faced with setbacks, putting on a sad face doesn’t help the situation. Why don’t you look at life with a smile? Why don’t you accept life as is? Maintain your tranquility, accept your destiny and move forward. Then, your life will be a little bit more relaxing.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月三日 October 3, 2012
撞船大災難 ***
香港撞船大災難
死傷人數三十八
港人激動會落淚
政府宣佈下半旗
誠心向死者致哀
死者家人要堅強
接受命運的挑戰
隨緣勇敢向前行
Hong Kong Ferry collision catastrophe ***
The number of deaths in a Hong Kong Ferry collision is 38. People shed tears when they hear about this disaster. Government announced to lower their flags to show their respect for the victims. We wish all the victims’ family members be strong and accept the challenge of life’s destiny. Be brave to accept reality and move forward.
接受現實 ***
不如意時常八九
遭受到挫折之時
苦口苦臉沒好處
何不學笑看人生
接受命運的安排
本著寧靜的心態
勇敢隨緣去面對
生活會輕鬆一些
Accept your destiny ***
Eight or nine out of ten life events are disappointments. When faced with setbacks, putting on a sad face doesn’t help the situation. Why don’t you look at life with a smile? Why don’t you accept life as is? Maintain your tranquility, accept your destiny and move forward. Then, your life will be a little bit more relaxing.
Monday, October 1, 2012
Daily Advice October 2, 2012 名副其實 Be practical
Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二日 October 2, 2012
名副其實 ***
做人要名副其實
服飾與身份相配
並不代表是甚麼
可能是虛有其表
內裡的人品才學
才是個人的財富
要養成實事求是
擁有實學去做人
Be practical ***
We all need to be practical. Although your dress matches your status, it may not really convey anything meaningful. What is worth more is not what you wear; it is your personal character. Your character is your personal wealth. Whatever you do, be practical and look for the truth. When you deal with people, deal with them by utilizing practical knowledge.
誠實無欺 ***
人能夠誠實無欺
人際關係一定好
能夠以誠實待人
不論有多少缺點
別人也樂意接受
這是以誠實動人
別人也以誠相見
以誠待人人上人
Be honest and don’t deceive people ***
If you are honest and don’t deceive people, you will be able to build good interpersonal relationships. People will accept your weaknesses if you are honest. Since you are honest with people, people will generally, in return, be honest to you. You are, in fact, a gentleman if you are an honest person.
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com
十月二日 October 2, 2012
名副其實 ***
做人要名副其實
服飾與身份相配
並不代表是甚麼
可能是虛有其表
內裡的人品才學
才是個人的財富
要養成實事求是
擁有實學去做人
Be practical ***
We all need to be practical. Although your dress matches your status, it may not really convey anything meaningful. What is worth more is not what you wear; it is your personal character. Your character is your personal wealth. Whatever you do, be practical and look for the truth. When you deal with people, deal with them by utilizing practical knowledge.
誠實無欺 ***
人能夠誠實無欺
人際關係一定好
能夠以誠實待人
不論有多少缺點
別人也樂意接受
這是以誠實動人
別人也以誠相見
以誠待人人上人
Be honest and don’t deceive people ***
If you are honest and don’t deceive people, you will be able to build good interpersonal relationships. People will accept your weaknesses if you are honest. Since you are honest with people, people will generally, in return, be honest to you. You are, in fact, a gentleman if you are an honest person.