Daily Advice April 20, 2011

四月二十日 April 20, 2011

傾訴心聲***

試問世上有幾人
能做到雪中送炭
但錦上添花的人
偏偏是滿佈天下
有苦最好自己知
就算想與人吐苦
要找個可靠的人
才可以傾訴心聲

Find someone to talk to***

How many people are willing to deliver charcoal to people in winter times? But there are many people who are willing to deliver flowers to celebrate other people’s success. Be careful with whom you want to share your sorrow with. Only you, yourself, can understand what, and how you’re going through during your current rough times. Choose a person whom you can trust before you share your sorrow with them.

將心比心***

將心比心雖是好
知人口面不知心
防人之心不可無
逢人最好三分話
無須全拋一片心
帶眼識人要小心
話雖如說有例外
對知心可以傾訴

Feeling for others***

Although you may have a kind heart and always feel for others, be careful of whom you are dealing with. It is always safer to be alert to the people around you. Don’t tell people everything from the bottom of your heart. Use judgment in determining what you say. Of course, there are always exceptions. You certainly can share your feeling with a trusted friend.

Philip Chan, author of “Good Advice”
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