Daily Advice May 26, 2011

五月二十六日 May 26, 2011

自欺欺人***

阿諛諂媚的語言
都是人人喜聽的
也都是一種通病
明明自己做錯了
也望別人來稱讚
這樣做人的態度
其實是沒有意義
可算是自欺欺人

Deceiving oneself and others***

Everybody likes to hear flattering words.
This very human reaction is a weakness and makes you vulnerable. Sometimes you know you are wrong, yet you expect others to praise you regardless of that fact. Such expectation is unreal and has no meaning at all. Actually you are deceiving both yourself and others.


身心安樂***

有些人滿腹牢騷
埋怨天地過日子
動不動怨天尤人
並搞到家嘈屋閉
做人如此何樂也
怨嘆命運也無用
試改變心態做人
或可以身心安樂

Keep body and mind peaceful***

Some people are full of grievances and complaints. They always complain about everything and there is no peace at home. Under this environment, how can anyone be happy? There is no benefit in complaining about life. Try to change your attitude. Be positive and you will have peace at heart and be happy.

Philip Chan, author of “Good Advice”
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