Daily Advice May 12, 2011

五月十二日 May 12, 2011

會好憎自己***

如果長期與人比
追求別人的擁有
這樣做人無意義
會永遠失去自己
失去快樂和幸福
天天過著的日子
只是為別人而活
日久會好憎自己

Someday you will hate yourself***

If you continuously compare yourself to others and always want to own what other people have, you will find your life is meaningless. You will lose yourself and won’t find fortune and happiness. You are not living for your own good; you only live for others. Doing so, over a period of time, you will hate yourself.


討好別人***


刻意去討好別人
未必是可得人心
反而使人生惡感
對你未必會信任
討好別人靠不住
自己努力才實際
踏實做人創世界
才算對得起自己

Should you flatter other people?

Flattering other people may seem to be desirable, but it doesn’t guarantee you will win other people’s hearts. In fact, they may not like you and trust you because of this. The practical thing to do is to depend on your own effort. Be practical and work hard. Only then, you can take good care of yourself.

Philip Chan, author of “Good Advice”
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