答謝親友
陳袁焯華夫人的纪念仪式在香港完成。 她現在安葬在香港的寶福山。 我們祝福她在天安息。
我和我的子女在此感謝我們的朋友、親戚、加拿大AM1470的聽眾和「忠言」的讀者。多謝你們的弔唁，你們的花牌，帛金和社團捐贈，以及出席美國和香港的纪念仪式。我計劃在香港停留六至七個星期。 在這個期間，我會時常到訪妻子的靈位，為她祈禱。期求她能啟發我的寫作靈感，重振我對寫作的興趣。將來我回到美國时，再為大家貢獻「忠言。」
再次，谢谢各位。沒有你們的支持，我沒可能渡過這個痛苦的日子。
陳中興
「忠言」作者
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http;//good-advice-book.blogspot.com
安心去上路 ***
人生苦短是無奈
無論環境有幾差
情況會有幾淒涼
要聽你話活下去
一定不可以放棄
勇敢努力向前行
代你享受兒孫福
請你安心去上路
Thank You Note ***
Juliana Chan’s memorial service in Hong Kong has completed. She is now buried at Po Fook San in Hong Kong. May she rest in peace.
My family and I would like to take this opportunity to thank our friends, relatives, Canada AM1470 listeners, and “Good Advice” readers for their condolences, flowers, funeral gifts, charity donations and attendance at the US and Hong Kong memorial services.
I plan to stay in Hong Kong for 6-7 weeks. During this period, I shall visit my wife’s new place to pray to her and regain my inspiration of writing. Hopefully I can go back to my writing projects when I return to the US.
Again, thank you for your support without which I would not have been able to go through this painful period.
Philip Chan
Author of “Good Advice”
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http;//good-advice-book.blogspot.com
May she rest in peace ***
Although life is bitter and short, it is an unavoidable part of life. No matter how difficult and how sad my current situation is, I need to accept reality and listen to the voices of my deceased wife that I shouldn’t give up but be strong and brave to move on. On behalf of my deceased wife, I must do my best to enjoy the company of my children and my grandchild. May she rest in peace.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Memorial Service in Hong Kong - 紀念儀式
特別公告。
經過了七年堅強與卵巢癌病魔的作战，我愛戀的妻子，陳袁焯華，在2012年2月3 日下午一時三十一分安寧離開她心愛的丈夫，兒子、二個女兒、兒媳、女婿和一個孫女兒。 她對家庭和丈夫無微不至的關懷是我們一生難忘。她一生的勞心勞力為我們健立一個充满愛的家庭。 在我們的心中她永遠是一個好妻子和一個好母親。
香港的紀念儀式
日期：二月二十五日 星期六
地址：世界殯儀館 三樓 明德堂
時間：下午五時三十分
至晚上十時三十分
5:30pm 接待親友拜祭
6:30pm 主家宣讀弔念詞及答謝親友
7:30pm 開檀 – 做法事
10:00pm 化寶
未亡人: 陳中興
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
Special Announcement **
After fighting against her ovarian cancer for over 7 years, my loving wife, Juliana Chan, has left us in peace on Feb 3, 2012 at 1:31pm with a husband, a son, two daughters, a daughter-in-law, a son-in-law and a grand daughter. She devoted her whole life to her family with love. We will never forget what she has done for us. She will always be remembered as a good wife and a good mother.
Memorial Service in Hong Kong
Date: February 25, 2012 Saturday
Place: Universal Funeral House, Ming Dak Tong (3/F)
Time: 5:30pm – 10:30pm
5:30pm Reception
6:30pm Messages from Chan Family
7:30pm Religious Procedures
10:00pm Treasury Delivery
Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
經過了七年堅強與卵巢癌病魔的作战，我愛戀的妻子，陳袁焯華，在2012年2月3 日下午一時三十一分安寧離開她心愛的丈夫，兒子、二個女兒、兒媳、女婿和一個孫女兒。 她對家庭和丈夫無微不至的關懷是我們一生難忘。她一生的勞心勞力為我們健立一個充满愛的家庭。 在我們的心中她永遠是一個好妻子和一個好母親。
香港的紀念儀式
日期：二月二十五日 星期六
地址：世界殯儀館 三樓 明德堂
時間：下午五時三十分
至晚上十時三十分
5:30pm 接待親友拜祭
6:30pm 主家宣讀弔念詞及答謝親友
7:30pm 開檀 – 做法事
10:00pm 化寶
未亡人: 陳中興
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
Special Announcement **
After fighting against her ovarian cancer for over 7 years, my loving wife, Juliana Chan, has left us in peace on Feb 3, 2012 at 1:31pm with a husband, a son, two daughters, a daughter-in-law, a son-in-law and a grand daughter. She devoted her whole life to her family with love. We will never forget what she has done for us. She will always be remembered as a good wife and a good mother.
Memorial Service in Hong Kong
Date: February 25, 2012 Saturday
Place: Universal Funeral House, Ming Dak Tong (3/F)
Time: 5:30pm – 10:30pm
5:30pm Reception
6:30pm Messages from Chan Family
7:30pm Religious Procedures
10:00pm Treasury Delivery
Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Feb 15 New Book "Don't Give Up - 抗病良言 之 未來是希望"
Feb 15 New Book "Don't Give Up - 抗病良言"
79. 未來是希望 ***
未來該是個希望
而不應是個憂慮
有時間想想將來
將來我應是怎樣
我的病況是怎樣
我的家人會怎樣
如果找出好答案
努力安然去接受
79. Hope ***
We should have hope in the future instead of worrying about it. Whenever we have time, we should think of our future. What should we do in the future? How should one handle one’s illness? What do we want our family to become? Once we know the answer, we should put in our best efforts to deliver what we want for the future.
80. 掌握命運 ***
人生有悲歡離合
月也有陰晴圓缺
風也有強悍微弱
海水也有起有落
生活也都有順逆
逆境最需要積極
把命運握在手中
自己去選擇結果
80. You control your own destiny ***
People have gatherings and separations. A moon can be half or full. The wind can be strong or weak. The sea can be calm or have big waves. Life has its ups and downs. When faced with adversity, you must be positive. As long as you are in control of your own destiny, you can choose the result of your destiny.
Philip Chan
Author of "Good Advice"
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
79. 未來是希望 ***
未來該是個希望
而不應是個憂慮
有時間想想將來
將來我應是怎樣
我的病況是怎樣
我的家人會怎樣
如果找出好答案
努力安然去接受
79. Hope ***
We should have hope in the future instead of worrying about it. Whenever we have time, we should think of our future. What should we do in the future? How should one handle one’s illness? What do we want our family to become? Once we know the answer, we should put in our best efforts to deliver what we want for the future.
80. 掌握命運 ***
人生有悲歡離合
月也有陰晴圓缺
風也有強悍微弱
海水也有起有落
生活也都有順逆
逆境最需要積極
把命運握在手中
自己去選擇結果
80. You control your own destiny ***
People have gatherings and separations. A moon can be half or full. The wind can be strong or weak. The sea can be calm or have big waves. Life has its ups and downs. When faced with adversity, you must be positive. As long as you are in control of your own destiny, you can choose the result of your destiny.
Philip Chan
Author of "Good Advice"
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
Feb 14, New Book "Don't Give Up - 抗病良言 之 心安理得"
Feb 14, New Book "Don't Give Up - 抗病良言"
77. 心安理得 ***
快樂在於一念心
好好照顧你的心
時常保持感恩心
內心會感覺寧靜
對人對事會豁達
心靜能夠看得透
便會誠心體諒人
活得會心安理得
77. Feeling safe and satisfied2 ***
The feeling of happiness comes from your heart. Treat your heart with care. If you are grateful for what you receive, you will feel tranquility. If you persevere in what you do, and remain connected to people, you’ll have more compassion for people and will be willing to forgive their shortcomings. The peace you derive from this will make you feel safe and satisfied with your life.
78. 日日是好日 ***
帶病當然唔好受
日夜苦思無補事
何不對自己說聲
日日是個好日子
月月也是個好月
只要是我人還在
有醫生長期醫治
健康日子會重來
78. Every day is a good day ***
Being sick is definitely painful but there is no need to be sad at all times. Why don’t you remind yourself that every day can be a good day and every month can be a good month? As long as you are still alive and have a doctor to take care of your illness, your healthy days will soon return.
Philip Chan
Author of "Good Advice"
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
77. 心安理得 ***
快樂在於一念心
好好照顧你的心
時常保持感恩心
內心會感覺寧靜
對人對事會豁達
心靜能夠看得透
便會誠心體諒人
活得會心安理得
77. Feeling safe and satisfied2 ***
The feeling of happiness comes from your heart. Treat your heart with care. If you are grateful for what you receive, you will feel tranquility. If you persevere in what you do, and remain connected to people, you’ll have more compassion for people and will be willing to forgive their shortcomings. The peace you derive from this will make you feel safe and satisfied with your life.
78. 日日是好日 ***
帶病當然唔好受
日夜苦思無補事
何不對自己說聲
日日是個好日子
月月也是個好月
只要是我人還在
有醫生長期醫治
健康日子會重來
78. Every day is a good day ***
Being sick is definitely painful but there is no need to be sad at all times. Why don’t you remind yourself that every day can be a good day and every month can be a good month? As long as you are still alive and have a doctor to take care of your illness, your healthy days will soon return.
Philip Chan
Author of "Good Advice"
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Thank You Note
Juliana Chan’s memorial service went very well on 2/11. Thank you for your condolence and/or flowers.
I will forever miss my wife. After 45 years of tender love and care, she has become a good part of me. It is hard to survive without her but I shall do my best because I know she wants me to.
My third book titled "Don't Give Up." is not for sale but is written in honor of my beloved wife. The fighting, the suffering and the feelings written in this book are true reflections of what we went through over the past 7 years. She was an amazing woman. Her positive attitude and her strength are worth people following. She did all this to stay alive to be with her family even her doctor said that she was a miracle woman.
I like to send you a copy of this book as a memorial gift. Please email me your mailing address.
Again, thank you and stay in touch.
Philip Chan
Author of "Good Advice"
Goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
Http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
I will forever miss my wife. After 45 years of tender love and care, she has become a good part of me. It is hard to survive without her but I shall do my best because I know she wants me to.
My third book titled "Don't Give Up." is not for sale but is written in honor of my beloved wife. The fighting, the suffering and the feelings written in this book are true reflections of what we went through over the past 7 years. She was an amazing woman. Her positive attitude and her strength are worth people following. She did all this to stay alive to be with her family even her doctor said that she was a miracle woman.
I like to send you a copy of this book as a memorial gift. Please email me your mailing address.
Again, thank you and stay in touch.
Philip Chan
Author of "Good Advice"
Goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
Http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Memorial Service
特別公告。
經過了7年堅強與卵巢癌病魔的作战，我愛戀的妻子，陳袁焯華，在2012年2月3 日下午一時三十一分安寧離開她心愛的丈夫，兒子、二個女兒、兒媳、女婿和一個孫女兒。 她對家庭和丈夫無微不至的關懷是我們一生難忘。她一生的勞心勞力為我們健立一個充满愛的家庭。 在我們的心中她永遠是一個好妻子和一個好母親。
Special Announcement
After fighting against her ovarian cancer for over 7 years, my loving wife, Juliana Chan, has left us in peace on Feb 3, 2012 at 1:31pm with a husband, a son, two daughters, a daughter-in-law, a son-in-law and a grand daughter. She devoted her whole life to her family with love. We will never forget what she has done for us. She will always be remembered as a good wife and a good mother.
紀念儀式 Memorial Service (in US)
陳府袁焯華夫人
星期六
二月十一日
上午十時至十二時
永豐殯儀館
247 North 12th Street
Philadelphia, PA
Juliana Chan
Saturday
February 11, 2012
10:00 am – 12:00pm
Choi Funeral Home, Inc.
247 North 12th Street
Philadelphia, PA
Memorial Online
www.choifuneralhome.com
go to Book of Memorials
http://choifh.frontrunnerpro.com/runtime/93597/runtime.php?SiteId=93597&NavigatorId=333040&viewOpt=dpaneOnly&ItemId=1127073&op=tributeMemorialCandles
上天的恩賜 ***
謝謝上天的恩賜
賜我一個好妻子
我願伴她一輩子
為何把她先帶走
留我孤獨過日子
淒涼度日有誰知
往日恩愛的日子
今生今世永難忘
Gift from heaven ***
I thank heaven for giving me a wonderful wife. I am extremely happy to spend my life with her. Why did you take her away from me? Without her, my life is nothing but pain. No one knows how painful I feel. Memories of our 45 years of good times are always inside my heart and I will never forget those lovely days.
Philip Chan
Author of "Good Advice"
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
經過了7年堅強與卵巢癌病魔的作战，我愛戀的妻子，陳袁焯華，在2012年2月3 日下午一時三十一分安寧離開她心愛的丈夫，兒子、二個女兒、兒媳、女婿和一個孫女兒。 她對家庭和丈夫無微不至的關懷是我們一生難忘。她一生的勞心勞力為我們健立一個充满愛的家庭。 在我們的心中她永遠是一個好妻子和一個好母親。
Special Announcement
After fighting against her ovarian cancer for over 7 years, my loving wife, Juliana Chan, has left us in peace on Feb 3, 2012 at 1:31pm with a husband, a son, two daughters, a daughter-in-law, a son-in-law and a grand daughter. She devoted her whole life to her family with love. We will never forget what she has done for us. She will always be remembered as a good wife and a good mother.
紀念儀式 Memorial Service (in US)
陳府袁焯華夫人
星期六
二月十一日
上午十時至十二時
永豐殯儀館
247 North 12th Street
Philadelphia, PA
Juliana Chan
Saturday
February 11, 2012
10:00 am – 12:00pm
Choi Funeral Home, Inc.
247 North 12th Street
Philadelphia, PA
Memorial Online
www.choifuneralhome.com
go to Book of Memorials
http://choifh.frontrunnerpro.com/runtime/93597/runtime.php?SiteId=93597&NavigatorId=333040&viewOpt=dpaneOnly&ItemId=1127073&op=tributeMemorialCandles
上天的恩賜 ***
謝謝上天的恩賜
賜我一個好妻子
我願伴她一輩子
為何把她先帶走
留我孤獨過日子
淒涼度日有誰知
往日恩愛的日子
今生今世永難忘
Gift from heaven ***
I thank heaven for giving me a wonderful wife. I am extremely happy to spend my life with her. Why did you take her away from me? Without her, my life is nothing but pain. No one knows how painful I feel. Memories of our 45 years of good times are always inside my heart and I will never forget those lovely days.
Philip Chan
Author of "Good Advice"
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
http://good-advice-book.blogspot.com
Saturday, February 4, 2012
紀念儀式 Memorial Service (in US)
紀念儀式 Memorial Service (in US)
陳府袁焯華夫人
星期六
二月十一日
上午十時至十二時
永豐殯儀館
247 North 12th Street
Philadelphia, PA
Juliana Chan
Saturday
February 11, 2012
10:00 am – 12:00pm
Choi Funeral Home, Inc.
247 North 12th Street
Philadelphia, PA
陳府袁焯華夫人
星期六
二月十一日
上午十時至十二時
永豐殯儀館
247 North 12th Street
Philadelphia, PA
Juliana Chan
Saturday
February 11, 2012
10:00 am – 12:00pm
Choi Funeral Home, Inc.
247 North 12th Street
Philadelphia, PA
Friday, February 3, 2012
Feb 3 Special Announcement
特別公告。
經過了7年堅強與卵巢癌病魔的作战，我愛戀的妻子在2012年2月3 日下午一時三十一分安寧離開她心愛的丈夫，兒子、二個女兒、兒媳、女婿和一個孫女兒。 她對家庭和丈夫無微不至的關懷是我們一生難忘。她一生的勞心勞力為我們健立一個充满愛的家庭。 在我們的心中她永遠是一個好妻子和一個好母親。
美國和香港的紀念儀式，日期將會分別地宣佈。
Special Announcement
After fighting against her ovarian cancer for over 7 years, my loving wife has left us in peace on Feb 3, 2012 at 1:31pm with a husband, a son, two daughters, a daughter-in-law, a son-in-law and a grand daughter. She devoted her whole life to her family with love. We will never forget what she has done for us. She will always be remembered as a good wife and a good mother.
Dates of memorial services in both US and HK will be announced separately.
他朝也相逢
人生有悲歡離合
月也有陰晴圓缺
風也有強悍微弱
海水也有起有落
做人也有生有死
賢妻今朝你離去
他朝夫郎隨你去
緣盡緣續天堂見
We shall meet again
People have gatherings and separations. A moon can be half or full. The wind can be strong or weak. The sea can be calm or have big waves. Life has birth and death. Today you leave me in this world. Tomorrow I shall join you in your world. We are only temporarily separated but will be together again forever in our garden of paradise.
緣份是福
只有今生無來世
有緣才能在一起
有福才可一起走
緣份註定四十五
恩愛日子難忘記
養大三孩唔容易
賢妻功勞最偉大
夫郎感激難盡訴
I love you forever
We all only live once. It must be fate that brings us together. It is our destiny that we walk through thick and thin for 45 years. There is no way I can forget our lovely days. Raising 3 children (one boy and twin girls) isn't an easy job. Majority of the credit comes from your loving heart. I shall never be able to say "thank you" enough but I say "I love you forever."
Philip Chan,
Author of "Good Advice"
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
經過了7年堅強與卵巢癌病魔的作战，我愛戀的妻子在2012年2月3 日下午一時三十一分安寧離開她心愛的丈夫，兒子、二個女兒、兒媳、女婿和一個孫女兒。 她對家庭和丈夫無微不至的關懷是我們一生難忘。她一生的勞心勞力為我們健立一個充满愛的家庭。 在我們的心中她永遠是一個好妻子和一個好母親。
美國和香港的紀念儀式，日期將會分別地宣佈。
Special Announcement
After fighting against her ovarian cancer for over 7 years, my loving wife has left us in peace on Feb 3, 2012 at 1:31pm with a husband, a son, two daughters, a daughter-in-law, a son-in-law and a grand daughter. She devoted her whole life to her family with love. We will never forget what she has done for us. She will always be remembered as a good wife and a good mother.
Dates of memorial services in both US and HK will be announced separately.
他朝也相逢
人生有悲歡離合
月也有陰晴圓缺
風也有強悍微弱
海水也有起有落
做人也有生有死
賢妻今朝你離去
他朝夫郎隨你去
緣盡緣續天堂見
We shall meet again
People have gatherings and separations. A moon can be half or full. The wind can be strong or weak. The sea can be calm or have big waves. Life has birth and death. Today you leave me in this world. Tomorrow I shall join you in your world. We are only temporarily separated but will be together again forever in our garden of paradise.
緣份是福
只有今生無來世
有緣才能在一起
有福才可一起走
緣份註定四十五
恩愛日子難忘記
養大三孩唔容易
賢妻功勞最偉大
夫郎感激難盡訴
I love you forever
We all only live once. It must be fate that brings us together. It is our destiny that we walk through thick and thin for 45 years. There is no way I can forget our lovely days. Raising 3 children (one boy and twin girls) isn't an easy job. Majority of the credit comes from your loving heart. I shall never be able to say "thank you" enough but I say "I love you forever."
Philip Chan,
Author of "Good Advice"
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Feb 2 New Book - Don't Give Up
Feb 2 New Book - Don't Give Up
75. 平安心 ***
生活有時是討厭
你的不定是討厭
這因為你的生活
是由你自己控制
你能夠使它美麗
只要你有平安心
凡事從好處著想
有病也可以復元
75. Peaceful mind ***
Life sucks, but yours doesn’t have to. You are in control of how you handle your life. You can make it beautiful as long as you always maintain a peaceful heart and look at the brighter side of things. You don’t have to be sad because you are sick. Sickness can be cured and you can be healthy again.
76. 靠自己 ***
任何時候不忘記
人要靠的是自己
不要指望於別人
就算有别人扶助
怎可扶你行一世
崎嶇漫長的人生
誰能知你的隱藏
一切一切靠自己
76. Rely on your own self ***
Remember you can’t always rely on other people; every accomplishment depends primarily on yourself. Even if there are people who have helped you to achieve your goal, they can’t hold your hand for the rest of your life. No one really knows how you feel inside your heart; therefore you need to rely on yourself.
Author - Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
75. 平安心 ***
生活有時是討厭
你的不定是討厭
這因為你的生活
是由你自己控制
你能夠使它美麗
只要你有平安心
凡事從好處著想
有病也可以復元
75. Peaceful mind ***
Life sucks, but yours doesn’t have to. You are in control of how you handle your life. You can make it beautiful as long as you always maintain a peaceful heart and look at the brighter side of things. You don’t have to be sad because you are sick. Sickness can be cured and you can be healthy again.
76. 靠自己 ***
任何時候不忘記
人要靠的是自己
不要指望於別人
就算有别人扶助
怎可扶你行一世
崎嶇漫長的人生
誰能知你的隱藏
一切一切靠自己
76. Rely on your own self ***
Remember you can’t always rely on other people; every accomplishment depends primarily on yourself. Even if there are people who have helped you to achieve your goal, they can’t hold your hand for the rest of your life. No one really knows how you feel inside your heart; therefore you need to rely on yourself.
Author - Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
Feb 1 New Book "Don't Give Up "
Feb 1 New Book "Don't Give Up "
73. 堅強去奮鬥 ***
做人一定要輕鬆
無論發生甚麼事
都要保持平常心
接受上天的安排
好好努力去應付
就算是大病一場
也不要怨聲載道
反而要努力奮鬥
73. Be strong to struggle till the end ***
You must try to relax. No matter what happens, always maintain a peaceful mind. Accept whatever heaven has arranged for you. Put in your best effort to deal with everything in life including your illness. Don’t be negative and complain but rather be brave and struggle hard to fight against your illness.
74. 脫苦見天日 ***
生老病死是過程
凡事都要看開些
定要分散注意力
專注建立新興趣
盡量忘掉不如意
重新立個新目標
努力奮鬥向前行
始終脫苦見天日
74. See the light of the day ***
Birth, aging, being sick and death are all parts of life. Always look at the bright side of life’s events. When faced with an unhappy event, it is advisable to distract your attention and find a new hobby. Forget the unhappiness and focus on your new hobby and move on with your life. You will then see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com
73. 堅強去奮鬥 ***
做人一定要輕鬆
無論發生甚麼事
都要保持平常心
接受上天的安排
好好努力去應付
就算是大病一場
也不要怨聲載道
反而要努力奮鬥
73. Be strong to struggle till the end ***
You must try to relax. No matter what happens, always maintain a peaceful mind. Accept whatever heaven has arranged for you. Put in your best effort to deal with everything in life including your illness. Don’t be negative and complain but rather be brave and struggle hard to fight against your illness.
74. 脫苦見天日 ***
生老病死是過程
凡事都要看開些
定要分散注意力
專注建立新興趣
盡量忘掉不如意
重新立個新目標
努力奮鬥向前行
始終脫苦見天日
74. See the light of the day ***
Birth, aging, being sick and death are all parts of life. Always look at the bright side of life’s events. When faced with an unhappy event, it is advisable to distract your attention and find a new hobby. Forget the unhappiness and focus on your new hobby and move on with your life. You will then see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@yahoo.com