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Monday, May 6, 2013

Daily Advice May 7, 2013 小心待人 How you treat people


Daily Advice 每日忠言
作者: 陳中興
Author: Philip Chan
goodadvicechan@gmail.com

五月七日

May 7, 2013
小心待人 ***

對別人長期太好
未必會贏得人心
反而會感覺心寒
因日子一旦久了
這個人會當一切
看作是理所當然
你待人的好待遇
在他眼中沒價值


How you treat people ***  
  
You may not win people's heart if you are continuously being extraordinarily good to people. Most probably you may end up being hurt.  This is because after a while, these people feel that they are entitled to your being good to them.  They expect such kind treatment and do not appreciate what is being given to them.  To them these treatments don't have any value for which they should be thankful.

糊塗過一天 ***

無須定要黑或白
這樣做人確幸苦
有時糊塗些也好
糊塗可以是中庸
也可以活得逍遙
可算是一種幸福
一蹋糊塗無所謂
難得糊塗過一天


Enjoy being silly for a day *** 
  
There is no need to insist on black and white.  Life can be tough if you insist on living in a black and while world.   Sometimes being grey may not be a bad idea.  Being grey can mean being neutral and willing to live in a silly and relaxing world.  Being silly can be a kind of good fortune.  Why don't you play silly and have a silly day? It can be fun.

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