Daily Advice April 22, 2013 慈悲的人 Compassionate people

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作者: 陳中興

Author: Philip Chan

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四月二十二日	April 22, 2013
天災人禍 天災人禍難預料 四川七級大地震 造成的破壞傷亡 令人人深感悲痛 人人都會有善心 向災區表示哀悼 出錢出力來安慰 祝早日重建家園	Sichuan 6.6 magnitude earthquake Natural disasters are unpredictable.  The Sichuan 6.6 magnitude earthquake has caused serious damages to the city and over at least 179 deaths.  Such disaster has created grieves for everyone.  We, with our sincere hearts, send our condolences to the city of Sichuan. Donations and charity work to help build the city are available.  We wish a speedy recovery of the city.
慈悲的人 ＊＊＊ 人有慈悲的一面 只要能保持清靜 凡事從好處著想 會啟發內心慈悲 願伸出同情之手 替別人排難解紛 不要求任何回報 這樣做人定快樂	Compassionate people ***       People have a compassionate side.  As long as they maintain tranquility and always look at the bright side, they will discover their compassionate side and are willing to lend a helping hand and help people solve their problems.   Yet they will not ask for any rewards in return.   Such behavior will make them happy.

Daily Advice April 19, 2013 應變的絕招 Strain your silver bullets

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作者: 陳中興

Author: Philip Chan

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四月十九日	April 19, 2013
應變的絕招 *** 在職場如想出位 要有應變的絕招 職場變化是無常 天變會引發人變 情形複雜多變幻 如想領先要應變 見招就立即拆招 為自己找條出路	Strain your silver bullets *** If you want to move up the career ladder, you must be prepared to have strategies that can cope with unpredictable changes in your work place.  Changes happen in a work place everyday.   Any such change can force people to change.  Those changes can be complex and you must have ways to deal with them efficiently, if you want to lead or to move up the ladder.
借勢直上 *** 職場競爭平常事 有時要借勢直上 趁有貴人的扶持 無人敢去擋住你 理應順天去上位 不須要圍繞圓圈 向準目標奔過去 此時上位最適當	Grasp opportunity to move upwards *** It is very common to see competition in a workplace.  Sometimes, you have to take advantage of the competition to move up the ladder.  While you have support from above, no one dares to stop you from moving upwards.  Don’t move in circles but position yourself to move up the ladder.

Daily Advice April 18, 2013 棋逢對手 Qualification of your opponent

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作者: 陳中興

Author: Philip Chan

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四月十八日	April 18, 2013
棋逢對手 * 天道是不能盡觀 人道也不能盡得 有時當棋逢對手 再鬥再戰也無用 始終是無分勝負 此時最好的方法 不防去接受和棋 讓一步來日再戰	Qualification of your opponent *** No one can fully predict what will happen in the world.  Nor can anyone predict people’s behavior correctly.  Sometimes when you face an opponent in a chess game, who has the same qualification and wisdom as yours, you feel that continuing to compete with him is useless.  It will be very hard to predict who can win.  Under this condition, the best way is to accept a draw and arrange a new competition date.
突出重圍 *** 如果想突出重圍 趁對方未出絕招 自己就先行出招 如對方改變招數 自己也改變招數 變人之所不能變 使對方沒法應付 便成功打敗對方	Breakthrough *** If you want to make a breakthrough, take action before your opponent has a chance to make his first move.  If you think your opponent has changed his/her strategy, you also should be prepared to adjust yours.  Use strategies that are beyond your opponent’s imagination.   This makes it impossible for your opponent to deal with you.  Under this new strategy, you will be able to defeat your opponent.

Daily Advice April 17, 2013 人性有兩面 Human nature has both sides

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Author: Philip Chan

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四月十七日	April 17, 2013
人性有兩面 *** 人性總會有兩面 有善的也有惡的 好人是己所不欲 一定會勿施於人 好人定會有良心 本著慈悲心待人 從不會害己害人 一定會止惡行善	Human nature has both sides  ***    A human being always has both the good and evil sides.  A good person will not impose onto others things that they don’t like.   They always have a good conscience and are willing to help others with a kind heart.  They will never do anything to inflict injury on others.  They will only do good deeds and won’t do any bad deeds.
好人有好報 *** 要信好人有好報 不應信好人命苦 好人心地是善良 一定會廣結人緣 與好人相處之時 一定會覺得和祥 能夠結識到好人 其實是一種福報	Good people deserve good returns *** We all should believe that good people will always have good returns and should not believe that good people have to have a suffering life.   Good people have a kind heart and will be able to build good relationships with people.   They are easy to get along with people and people will feel comfortable to approach them.   If you make friends with a good person, you are a lucky person.

Daily Advice April 15, 2013 算是個好人 Be a good person

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作者: 陳中興

Author: Philip Chan

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四月十五日	April 15, 2013
算是個好人 *** 想人視你為好人 首先要儀表端正 說話要斯文淡定 不隨便苛責別人 才可贏得好印象 信你不會做壞事 能修養到此表現 可以算是個好人	Be a good person  ***         If you want to be a good person, first you must behave well.  Your speech must be gentle and calm.   Don’t accuse people even though you may have a sound reason to do so.  If you behave well, you will create a good impression.  People will have confidence in you, and believe that you won’t do any bad deeds.   If you can accomplish this, you are in fact a good person.
一位俊君子 *** 想做一位俊君子 除了外表要整潔 內心一定要慈祥 具備優良的品德 心懷豐富的知識 但不會誇炫自己 表現像君子一樣 溫文有禮得人愛	A smart gentleman  ***   If you want to be a smart gentleman, in addition to being neat and clean in your appearance, you need to have a kind heart.  You need to engage in good conduct and command a wealth of general knowledge.  But, you shouldn’t be arrogant.  You should act like a gentleman.  Your gentle and polite behavior will be welcome by everyone.

Daily Advice April 12, 2013 稱讚 Praises

四月十二日	April 12, 2013
稱讚 *** 稱讚不是拍馬屁 只要是出於誠信 不是假意的阿諛 而是表達些善意 可代表一些謝意 更可以作為鼓勵 增加對方的信心 將來會做得更好	Praises *** Genuine praise is not the same as a flattering word.   As long as it is out of good faith, with a good intention, and is not a pretense to flatter people.    Such praise can represent a word of thanks, as an encouragement, and a good incentive to boost up one’s confidence to do better.
一句話好話 *** 好好的一句祝福 好好的一句鼓勵 可令人發奮圖強 做人能成人之美 得益不只是別人 遲早定會有喜報 做人能除惡行善 生活一定是美滿	Impact  of a sutiable word *** A word of blessing, or a word of encouragement, can make people more energetic, motivating them to do better, or it can help people achieve their goals.  This usage of words not only benefits others, someday you will be benefited from your good deeds.   If people can stop doing bad deeds, and perform good deeds instead, they will be able to enjoy a satisfying lifestyle.

Daily Advice April 11, 2013 得與失 Gains and losses

四月十一日	April 11, 2013
得與失 *** 為了得失而煩惱 弄到消瘦和憔悴 往日容光的面子 今日憂鬱的樣子 這麼辛苦值得嗎 人生該來的就來 不該來的再緊張 始終空歡喜一場	Gains and losses *** Always worrying about gains and losses will eventually make you look worn and haggard.  It will turn your cheerful face to a face of deep worry.  Why do this?  Is this worth it?  If something is destined to be yours, it will automatically come your way.  By contrast, if you are not destined to have it, no matter how much you worry about it, you will end up being empty without it.
風光日子 *** 處於風光日子裡 不應該持富而驕 不應對朋友無義 不應迷酒色財氣 天有不測之風雲 風光日子會消失 落魄時有誰可憐 到時下場多淒慘	Glorious days *** You don’t have to be arrogant even though you live in your glorious days of being rich and famous.   You should still treat your friends with consideration. Don’t be obsessed with sex and wine.  No one knows what may happen tomorrow.  It is like the weather.  A sunny day can turn into a rainy day.  Your glorious days can be gone in a minute.  But then, who is going to pity you?  You will end up being lonely and miserable.