Daily Advice January 22, 2014 甚麼最好 What is better

一月二十二日	January 22, 2014
甚麼最好  *** 少些冷嘲和責罵 多點體諒和關懷 短短的幾句讚美 好過一連串指責	What is better ***    Avoid using cynical and scolding words.  Say more of considerate and caring words.  A few words of praise are better than a series of accusations.
有商有量 *** 調解的有效方法 首先對人有寬度 但對事則要謹慎 有商有量最有效	Willing to negotiate ***   The best way to resolve a conflict is to be willing to give in and forgive a little but be sensible in dealing with the situation.   It is even better if you are willing to discuss and negotiate how to resolve the matter.