Daily Advice January 21, 2014 兩敗俱傷 * Both parties lose *

一月二十一日	January 21, 2014
兩敗俱傷 *** 在情緒激動之時 氣語殺傷力最強 忍忍忍冷靜下來 免得會兩敗俱傷	Both parties lose ***     In the times of emotional involvement, people may say things to hurt each other even though they may not mean it.  Under this circumstance, the best way is to endure and keep calm otherwise both parties will get hurt.
少說兩句  *** 若彼此已有成見 誤解情緒失控時 最好是少說兩句 以免出口再傷人	Saying less is better ***     When two people already have prejudices against each other and are yet faced with further misunderstandings, the best thing to do is to say less.  The less you say, the less chances of hurting others.