Daily Advice December 16, 2014 愈弄愈糟 Making matters worse

十二月十六日	December 16, 2014
愈弄愈糟   *** 雖然是為了公理 當時出口不擇言 強力去指責別人 這樣㑹愈弄愈糟	Making matters worse   ***   Although it is for the sake of justice, people get emotional, and say things to hurt others, and blame them for what has happened. Such a reaction can only make matters worse.
減少衝突   *** 凡事要想清想透 找出問題的來源 可減少無謂衝突 保持合作的精神	Reduce conflicts   ***   Look at things clearly and diligently. Find out the source of any problem. Doing this will reduce any unnecessary conflicts and enhance the spirit of cooperation.

Announcement - Look Forward (Good Advice Part 4)

Announcement :::

A new book titled "Look Forward" or "Good Advice Part 4"
is now available at Amazon.com

This book offers advice how to live a productive, relaxing and happy life.  

This book has three categories.   They are :

- Attitude
- Life Road, and
- Career development.

Happy Reading !!!

Author:  Philip Chan
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              www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com

Daily Advice December 14, 2014 比不上 Which is better ?

十二月十五日	December 15, 2014
比不上   *** 財富比不上知識 夢想比𣎴上信心 爭氣當然是好好 還是比不上骨氣	Which is better ?    ***  Knowledge is better than wealth and confidence is better than a dream.    Although achievement is good, it isn't better than strong will.
反省自己   *** 永遠是反省別人 盲目去評論別人 忘記要反省自己 這樣做人沒進步	Reflect on their own   ***  Always examine others in detail but do not blindly criticize them. It is not good never to reflect on their own, and to look for opportunities to improve. Such a habit will never help people make progress in life.

Daily Advice December 12, 2014 說話的表現 What to say

十二月十二日	December 12, 2014
說話的表現   *** 若想與人結友誼 善言不防說多些 讚美幾句也無防 常帶感恩得人愛	What to say   ***  If you want to develop friendship, there is no harm in using kind words.   When appropriate, praise a little.   As long as you are truly thankful at all times, people will naturally want to be friends.
駟馬難追   *** 對人要小心説話 惡言切忌會亂說 莫忘記一言既出 就算駟馬也難追	Difficult to recover    *** Be careful in choice of words.  Don't say anything disparaging that can hurt others.  Don't forget once you say something bad, even if you send four horses to chase it back, you will never be able to retract those words.

Daily Advice December 11, 2014 一念之差 Wrong decision in a second

十二月十一日	December 11, 2014
一念之差   *** 對人對事都一様 進一步不一定贏 退一步也不定輸 一念之差要留神	Wrong decision in a second   *** When dealing with people or things, one step forward does not necessarily mean you win.  Nor does one step backward mean you will lose.   Be attentive when you make a quick decision.
努力不放棄   *** 只要努力不放棄 樂觀勇敢向前望 加油勤奮撐下去 㑹有成功的日子	Try harder not to give up    *** Try your very best not to give up. Be optimistic and energetic to look ahead. Put in extra effort and struggle till the end. Ultimately you will succeed.

Daily Advice December 10, 2014 自卑感 Low self esteem

Daily Advice 每日忠言

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Author: Philip Chan

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www.good-advice-book.blogspot.com

十二月十日	December 10, 2014
自卑感   *** 人人會有自卑感 差別是多或者少 自卑感如果過高 好容易自暴自棄	Low self esteem    ***  Everyone can fall victim to a feeling of inferiority.  It is just a matter of how intense it becomes.  If the degree of low self-esteem is too intense, it may make people abandon hope.
向上爬   *** 如智慧技能不夠 無須要產生自卑 反而要抓緊機會 接受訓練向上爬	Climb up career ladder    *** If you feel your intellectual skills are deficient, there is no need to succumb to low self-esteem.  Grasp every opportunity to improve those skills, and work hard to climb up your career ladder.

Daily Advice December 9, 2014 人生的經歷 Personal experience

十二月九日	December 9, 2014
人生的經歷   *** 個人的人生經歷 何不提早說出來 獻給下代去參考 省回不少冤枉路	Personal experience    ***   Why don't people share their personal experiences early with the younger generations?  The young can learn something from it and avoid any unnecessary mistakes.
新一代    *** 得得失失平常事 悲悲喜喜平常心 大東江去浪淘盡 一代還有新一代	New generation     ***  Winning or losing is a norm in life.  No need to react in an overly emotional manner to joyful or sad events. Life is like the non stop running water in a river.  There are bound to be new generations.