Daily Advice January 29, 2015 言談謹慎 Be aware of the sensibility of your words

一月二十九日	January 29, 2015
言談謹慎   *** 說話要言談謹慎 一句不小心的話 可傷害對方自尊 可破壞一段友誼	Be aware of the sensibility of your words *** Always be alert and considerate about what you say.   A careless choice of words may hurt other people's feelings.  It may even destroy a long-term relationship.
刻骨之恨   *** 最忌背後的議論 不但只有損人格 㑹令到受攻擊者 對你有刻骨之恨	Deep hatred  ***  The worst thing to do is to badmouth people behind their backs.    This type of behavior not only reveals that you have an unpleasant character; it also makes them despise you.