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Monday, August 31, 2020

September 1, 2020 self cultivation

Daily Advice September 1, 2020


善報先修身.  ***


人生中待人處事

不應該斤斤計較

各有前因莫羡人

欲求善報先修身


Self-cultivation brings good rewards.  ***


Don’t be calculated when dealing with people or events.   Don’t compare with others as people have different background.  It is better to perform self-cultivation before one expects rewards. 


大家好.  ***


無須要互相爭鬥

最好能忍耐一下

長遠計值得一忍

你好我好大家好


Endurance is good for everybody.   ***


People don’t need to fight against each other.   It is better to be a little bit endurance now.  In the long run, such endurance will be good for everyone. 

Daily Advice August 31, 2020

 


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Daily Advice August  31, 2020


事實.  ***


在面對上司之時

只可以講出事實

不要找任何藉口

掩飾事實的錯誤


Facts   ***


When facing the boss, tell the truth.  Don’t look for excuses to cover up

the facts. 


真實的事情.    ***


人有時没有脾气

是因為已經學會

能夠無條件接受

任何真實的事情


The true facts.   ***


People sometimes have no temper because they have learned to accept the truth whether they are good or bad unconditionally. 

Sunday, August 30, 2020

Voice of a grand daughter

 August 30, 2020 - voice of a Grand daughter 


Covid-19 short story

    Written in both English and Chinese 


Voice  of a Grand daughter 


The phone was ringing.  It must be one of those marketing calls.  This time, I would  not answer the phone.  Recently, there have been at least two such calls in the morning, two in the afternoon, and even two more before 9 pm.  It was annoying.


  A minute later, the phone rang again.  This time I picked up the phone, raised my voice and said loudly, "Hello".  The other party immediately dropped the call.


  After another minute, the phone rang again.  This time I picked up the phone and did not speak.  A girl's voice said, "Where are Grandma and Grandpa?"


  "Oh, my baby ...this is grandma...I love you..." I replied.


  "Grandma , I miss you." My 3-year-old granddaughter Lydia said.


  "I miss you too." Lydia replied.  " When are you coming?  "


  "As long as it is safe to travel, I will see you guys as soon as possible." My eyes were wet.


  "Grandma ,  I'm very safe at home. My brother is busy with his iPad. He doesn't fight with me or beat me anymore." Lydia answered happily.


  My face immediately turned into a smiling face, and I said, "That's great."


  "Grandma , you must come. I miss your toys, new clothes and... well..." There was a silence .


  "What else, Lydia?" I want to know her

  answer. Silence continued. 


 I asked again, "What else?"


  There was a pause for a few seconds.  Then she said: "Your hug and  kisses...”


  "Really?" I am glad to hear this answer.  "Good girl, I will send you some hugs and kisses and toys."


  "I want new clothes too, Grandma.  But brother has an iPad.  So he doesn’t need anything."


 I replied happily, "Ok... Ok..."


  "Really? I'm going to tell Mommy now. Mommy... Mommy..." She hung up the phone.


孫女兒的心聲


電話響了。 它一定是那些營銷電話之一。 我今次不再接電話。 最近,這類的來電,早上至少有兩個,下午兩個,甚至晚上9點之前也有兩個。 真煩死人。


 一分鐘後,電話又響了。 這次我拿起電話,抬起聲音大聲說,”你好”。 對方立即打斷了電話。


 再過一分鐘,電話又響了。 這次我拿起電話不說話。 一個女孩子的聲音說:“嫲嫲和爺爺在那兒?”


 “哦,親愛的……這是嫲嫲……我愛你……”我回答。


 “嫲嫲,我掛住你。” 我的3歲孫女兒莉迪亞說。


 “我也想念你。” 莉迪亞回答。  “ 你什麼時候來?  “


 “只要旅行是安全的,我就會盡快見到你。” 我的眼睛濕了。


 “嫲嫲我在家很安全。 哥哥忙於他的iPad。 他不再和我打架或者打我。” 莉迪亞自豪地回答。


 我的臉立刻變成笑臉,我說,”那真好。”


 “嫲嫲你必須來。 我很想念你每次帶來的玩具,新衣服和……嗯……”寂靜無聲。


 “還有什麼,莉迪亞?” 我想知道她的

 答案。


我再追問,” 還有什麼? “


 停頓了幾秒鐘。 然後她說:“你的擁抱和親吻……”


 “真的嗎?” 我很高興聽到這個答案。  “乖孫,嫲嫲會寄給你,一些擁抱和親吻,還有玩具。”


 “ 我還要新衣服,哥哥有iPad, 什麼都不要。”


我好開心地回答,”好... 好...”


 “真的嗎? 我現在去告訴媽咪。 媽咪……媽咪...” 她掛了電話。

Daily August 28, 2020

 Daily Advice August 28, 2020


新的想法


轉角度去看事情

注意力集中問題

會找到新的想法

解決當下的問題


New idea.   ***


If people look  at things from a different angle and concentrate on problems not people, they will find new ideas to solve their current problems.  


適時充充電.  ***


只要適時充充電

耐力足夠又持久

再專注要做的事

這樣辦事會輕鬆


 Charge in time.   ***


Charge your energy just in time. This will boost your endurance and persistence.   Such charges will make working less stress but more relaxing. 


Daily Advice August 27

 Daily Advice August 27, 2020


無須太苛求.  ***


不必追求任何事

都做得十全十美

無須要太過苛求

已盡全力已足夠


No need to be too demanding


 Don't have to pursue everything to be 

 perfect.   Don’t be too demanding on yourself as long as you have already put in your best efforts. 


向準目標走.   ***


只要有一個目標

向準目標走下去

想盡辦法努力做

總會達到目的地


Towards the target.  ***


As long as one has a goal and works diligently towards achieving the goal. With such persistence, one will ultimately reach one’s goal. 

Daily Advice August 26, 2020

 Daily Advice August 26, 2020


無憂過晚年.   ***


鼎盛時期要儲蓄

做好退休的準備

才不至於會餓死

無憂無慮過晚年


Worry-free in old age. ***


Save in the heyday to prepare for retirement.  This way one will not starve to death but be carefree in retirement age. 


留後路.  ***


凡事都要留後路

才可以不走絕路

將來敵人再碰面

大家可以點點頭


 Forgive a little.  ***


Always leave room to forgive a little so that the relationship will not be at a dead end.   Such behavior will allow people to nod without embarrassment when meet again in the future. 

Tuesday, August 25, 2020

Daily Advice August 26, 2020

 


Daily Advice August 26, 2020


無憂過晚年.   ***


鼎盛時期要儲蓄

做好退休的準備

才不至於會餓死

無憂無慮過晚年


Worry-free in old age. ***


Save in the heyday to prepare for retirement.  This way one will not starve to death but be carefree in retirement age. 


留後路.  ***


凡事都要留後路

才可以不走絕路

將來敵人再碰面

大家可以點點頭


 Forgive a little.  ***


Always leave room to forgive a little so that the relationship will not be at a dead end.   Such behavior will allow people to nod without embarrassment when meet again in the future.

 
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