Daily Advice May 1, 2019 憂鬱. Melancholy

Daily Advice May 2019

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Daily Advice May  1 , 2019 

憂鬱.   ***

憂鬱過度沒好處

可使人精神疲倦

甚至弄到病起來

這樣有什麼意義

Melancholy.   ***

Melancholy is not a good thing.    It can 

make people mentally tired or even becoming sick. Such daily life is meaningless. 

精神不振.   ***

如果天天都抱怨

會弄到精神不振

做事一定不暢順

試問這樣值得嗎

Mentally weak.  ***

If people complain every day, they will become mentally weak.  Getting anything done must not be smooth and easy.  

 Is it worth it? 

Daily Advice April 30, 2019 好運滾滾來. Good luck is coming ***

Daily Advice April 30, 2019 

好運滾滾來.   ***

凡事能夠看得開

加上有顆慈悲心

對人對事能寬恕

自然好運滾滾來

Good luck is coming ***

If  people can forgive a little and possess 

 a compassionate heart, natural 

good luck is coming.

沒有個目標.   ***

整天糊塗過日子

從來沒有個目標

試問怎可以振作

何來會有好結果

No goal.   ***

If people drag on  all day long without any goal, how can they have energy to deliver any good achievements. 

Daily Advice April 29, 2019 放棄與堅持. Give up or persist。 ***

Daily Advice April 29 , 2019 

放棄與堅持.   ***

面對放棄與堅持

郤不是容易撰擇

一定要想清想楚

才作最後的決定

Give up or persist。 ***

When faced with giving up and persistence, it isn’t an easy choice.  

Both choices need great deep analysis before a decision is reached. 

知慧. ***

如果能夠做得到

該放棄的就放棄

該堅持的就堅持

那就靠你的知慧

Your wisdom   ***

If you can give up things that deserve to be given up or stick persistently things that should be kept, such an action depends on your knowledge and wisdom. 

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Daily Advice April 26, 2019 長命百歲 Longevity

Daily Advice April 26, 2019 

長命百歲。 ***

首先要口腔健康

加上清潔的雙手

情緒要保持樂觀

自然會長命百歲

Longevity    ***

If one wants to live longer, first of all, keep oral health and clean hands.  Most important of all, remain optimistic at all times. 

如果想長壽.  ***

如果希望會長壽

首先有足夠睡眠

莫忘多吃維生素

天天要做㸃運動

If you want to live longer.   ***

If you want to live longer, have enough sleep and don’t forget to eat more vitamins and exercise every day. 

Daily April 25, 2019 無補於事. Does not help

Daily Advice April 25, 2019 

無補於事.   ***

因為有人欺騙你

怨恨也無補於事

最好當上了一課

以後要小心小人

Does not help ***

Being sad and hateful does not help the situation if someone deceives you. In the this case, the best way to cope with it is to treat it as a lesson learned.  Later be careful when deal with a villain. 

小心識人.  ***

對待傷害你的人

怨憤是無補於事

再怨再憤也無用

以後要小心識人

Be careful in building new relationship  ***

Being angry and hateful to those people who has hurt you will not help the situation.   Be alert in the future how to build a new relationship.  

Daily Advice April 24, 2019 最宜犯的錯 Most common mistake. ***

Daily Advice April 24, 2019 

  ***

每人最宜犯的錯

是用自己的方式

去應付身邊的人

別人未必會同意

Most common mistake.   ***

The most common mistake for everyone is to use your behavior method to deal with the people around you.  Unfortunately others may not accept such behavior.

反後果。***

其實人人莫以為

為對方做到極致

對方一定會感動

但可能有反後果

Counterproductive consequences.  ***

Don’t think if people do own way  to accommodate others, the other parties will be touched.  As a matter of facts, there may be counterproductive consequences.  

Daily Advice April 23, 2019. 相處之道 The way to get along. ***

Daily Advice April 23, 2019 

相處之道。 ***

何必一定要鬥氣

和諧相處來處事

你好我好大家好

辦起事來易成功

The way to get along. ***

Why must you be vindictive?  Maintaining harmony among people will make everyone easy to work with.  

Working in such an environment will get things done much easier.

廣結善緣.   ***

如果想廣結善緣

先要有顆慈悲心

対人対事要禮讓

這樣定會受歡迎

Building friendship.   ***

If you want to make a good relationship, first have a compassion.  Be polite to people in handling anything.  Such attitude will be welcome everywhere. 

Daily Advice April 22, 2019 不管閒事 Don’t get involved ***

Daily Advice April 22, 2019

不管閒事.  ***

無論是公或是私

対付大小的爭議

最好是不管閒事

否則是煩惱自尋

Don’t get involved    ***

Don’t get involved in any dispute event whether it is a big or small family issue or any work in dispute in the office, otherwise people may get into troubles.

不聞不聽.  ***

凡事不要小心眼

對於不順眼的事

或者不想聽的話

最好是不聞不聽

Don’t listen and don’t hear.   ***

Don't be calculating.   Don’t pay attention to anything not pleasing to the eye or listen to anything you don’t like to hear.  The best sensible thing to do is to ignore them. i.e. don’t listen and don’t hear. 

Daily April 19, 2019 最大的誤會. Biggest Misunderstanding ***

Daily Advice April 19, 2019 

最大的誤會.   ***

世間最大的誤會

不是沒真心愛人

是沒懂得怎様愛

結果會不歡而散

Biggest Misunderstanding    ***

The biggest misunderstanding in the world isn’t the fact that people do not love each other. It is due to the fact that they don’t know how to love each other. This eventually may cause separation.

反老還童.   ***

能做到反老還童

是一件非常好事

童兒天真無詭詐

只要開心過日子

Act like a child.  ***

It is a very good thing to act like  a child  again.  A child is innocent without any desire to cheat.  All they want is to be happy at all times . 

Daily Advice April 18, 2019 人與動物. Human beings and animals. ***

Advice April 18, 2019 

人與動物.  ***

人和動物的分別

動物始終有暴力

但人的言行舉止

內心㑹有情有義

Human beings and animals. ***

What are the differences between humans and animal?   Animals sometimes can be fierce.  Yet people’s inner behavior can be affectionate.  

長壽秘訣.  ***

個人的長壽秘訣

除了飲食要健康 

心態是非常重要

樂觀處世會添壽

Secret of Longevity   ***

What are the secret tips of longevity? 

In addition to eating healthy, optimistic attitude is very important.  Being optimistic to deal with every life event will definitely extend one’s  life.

Daily Advice April 17, 2019. 跌倒不爬起 Falling down does not climb up ***

Daily Advice April 17, 2019 

跌倒不爬起.  ***

跌倒了如不爬起

別人㑹看不起你

連自己也有可能

會失去個人自信

If people fall down but don’t climb up automatically. Others may look down on them.  It may even make them feel losing one’s confidence. 

自得其樂.  ***

能做到助人為樂

始終會自得其樂

能做到胸懷寬廣

煩惱自然會減少

Self-satisfaction.  ***

Helping others will make people feel joyful.    Such behavior will bring happiness.  Also if people can forgive a little, their troubles will be less. 

Daily Advice April 16, 2019 習慣。 Habits.

Daily Advice April 16, 2019 

習慣。 ***

好習慣定要保留

壞習慣定要消除

如果不去除壞習

結果受害是自己

Habits.  ***

Good habits must be retained.  Bad habits must be eliminated.  If you don’t destroy your bad habits, you will eventually be the one who get hurt. 

總會有一天。  ***

有一天你會發現

世界上所有一切

的確是真的沒有

絕對的對或者錯

There will be a day.   ***

There will be a day when people will realize that nothing in the world is 100 % correct or wrong. 

Daily Advice April 15 給人方便. Receiving favors.

Daily Advice April 15, 2019 

給人方便.   ***

有人給自己方便

定要説一聲謝謝

再謝上天的恩賜

幸運遇上個好人

Receiving favors.  ***

When faced with receiving favors, people must say thank you.  Also Thank God  for granting us  to meet those nice people. 

不再想當年.  ***

以往的悽涼甜蜜

已經是塵舊往事

再沒有人感興趣

最好放棄不再提

Don’t think about the past.  ***

Past sadness and sweetness are gone. 

No one will be interested to hear about the pass.  It is best not to bring it up. 

Daily Advice April 12, 2019 不要計較. Don't care

Daily Advice April 12, 2019. 

不要計較.  ***

不要和小人計較

否則受害是自己

不要和家人爭吵

否則會破壞親情

Don't care. :::

Don't argue with the villain otherwise, you may become his victim.   Don't argue with your family members, otherwise, it will harm  family relationship. 

心情的影響.  ***

好壞心情好重要

如果心情是美好

過一天開心一天

心情差愈覺煩惱

Mood affects everything.   ***

Be it a good or bad day, if one maintains a beautiful mood, one will be sure to have a positive healthy day. But if one has a bad mood,  one is asking for more trouble.

Daily Advice April 11, 2019 和諧相處 Getting along well. ***

Daily Advice April 11, 2019. 

和諧相處.  ***

和諧相處是最好

不但可以得人愛

還可以互相溝通

建立忠誠的友誼

Getting along well.  ***

Harmony creates a decent environment.  

Not only can one win the love from other people,  they can have mutual understanding and can build a loyal friendship

明事理。 ***

能夠做到明事理

接受別人的意見

這樣處事的態度

一定㑹和平共處

Have a better understanding.  ***

When faced with an issue, one must 

be clear that both parties should arrive at a mutual understanding and be able to accept the opinions of others.    Such attitude will lead to a peaceful cooperation.

Daily Advice April 10, 2019 謊言說不完. Lies are eternal :::

Daily Advice April 10, 2019

謊言說不完.  ***

謊言既然已出口

遲早會出另一個

去掩飾前個謊言

這樣謊言說不完

Lies are eternal :::

Once a lie is told, another new lie is needed to cover the first one.   The end result will continuously be that one new lie covering another old one. 

謊言與實話.  ***

同樣是説一句話

為什麼要説謊言

何不多些說實話

你好我好大家好

Lies and truth ::

It is inevitable that people have to say something.  But why  do some people lie?

Why don't they tell the truth?   If everyone tells the truth, everyone will be happily satisfied and relaxed.